PBT VIP Small Group Retreat

A 2.5-Day In Person Transformation

July 14-16th, 2023

La Jolla, California

A Personal Note From Dr. Debi

Dear Amazing You,

You’re dedicated to healing from betrayal. You’re taking responsibility for your life and gaining momentum with regaining a sense of balance, trust and safety.  

But you may still be struggling with transforming and living as your thriving 2.0 self.

Even if you are healing mentally and emotionally, what about other aspects of life that may need attention like your health, wealth, work, lifestyle, dreams, and more?

Which is why I invite you to the PBT VIP Small Group Retreat - to give you the support you deserve to accelerate your healing and growth. The rest of your fabulous life is waiting for you… now is the time to create it, claim it, and live it. With my personal help, the support of our carefully hand-picked experts, and within a cocoon of safety and creativity, let’s become, create, and celebrate your transformed self.

If you’ve experienced what we can do together in 30 minutes during a private session or a group Q&A call, just imagine what can happen when we have 2.5 days to create your ultimate YOU! I’m including EVERYTHING I know that can help create your most transformative experience.

With love, support and transformation,

I can’t even find the words to properly describe how instrumental you have been in helping me change my life.


“I can’t even find the words to properly describe how instrumental you have been in helping me change my life. When I came to you I felt broken and defeated. I wanted to change my life, I just didn’t know how or where to start. With your help I created Debra 2.0, the new and improved version of myself that I always dreamed I could be. For those who feel lost, beaten down or in despair, they owe it to themselves to call you. I’m so glad I did!”

When I saw this opportunity, I jumped at it. And I'm so glad I did!


“Before I came to the retreat, I was stuck. I was betrayed over seven years ago and been living in my story and not moving forward. I guess you'd say Stage Three for many years so when I saw this opportunity, I jumped at it. And I'm so glad I did. I really feel like it was the push I needed to get out of Stage Three and put myself first. Now I'm so excited about what the future holds.

The biggest takeaways are meeting the other people here at the retreat, not feeling alone and really having so much in common with everyone and the bonds we made that I feel like will last for years to come. Also the access to Dr. Debi was hugely important to me. I was not currently a member of Transform. So I really only knew her through the coffee chats and her videos and things. So just being able to speak with her and talk to her was amazing. And really doing some of the hands on activities we did are exactly what I needed to push forward which isn't something I was doing with pen and paper.”

Over these 2.5 days, you will…

Immerse in Your 2.0 Self

By getting away from your usual environment, you'll remove all limitations so you can quickly and easily become your 2.0 self. 

Experience growth, change and healing

Experience growth, change and healing as you engage in specific activities and processes delivered through 1:1 time, collaborative group time, and support from dynamic guest experts.

Accelerate Your Transformation

Accelerate your transformation by spending 3 days with carefully selected, like-minded people ready to grow and transform. Growth is exponential through community so we’re curating the perfect small mix of people for you to experience this with.

Amplify Your Results

Amplify your results when you surround yourself with the right people, place and activities; all working together to create a world class experience.

See, become and create

See, become and create your 2.0 self.

Before the retreat I was feeling like I made progress...


“Before the retreat I was feeling like I made progress, then I got stuck. Then I signed up for the retreat. It’s not even over yet and I feel like I not only am not stuck but I know exactly where I'm going. It's been very inspirational. I feel entirely different and more positive and inspired than the stuck feeling I had prior to coming to a retreat.

My biggest takeaways? I've never been able to really visualize and see myself in the future but Dr. Debi has this activity that allowed me to see what my life could be like-I was surprised since I had felt so stuck before. And I really got a message that I have to give myself the time and the space to feel safe in order to really heal. And the third one was how to create our new life. We really have to believe differently and act differently in order to be different. That really made sense that I need to start behaving in a way that will create the change I want. If I do and be the same, I will have the exact same life. It's time to do something different.”

Overview of the Retreat Experience

Your VIP experience begins before we meet in person so you can jumpstart your process.
Click each button below to see what awaits you each day!


1:1 Private Zoom with Dr. Debi: Complete Lifestyle Assessment (NES Health Scan)
(Valued $1200)

We use a simple, high-tech approach to detect and assess your internal and external environments. These include factors such as toxins, nutritional imbalances, core beliefs, emotions, stored trauma, brain performance, purpose and more. This is done to identify and correct the imbalances in your physical-emotional-mental field. This allows us to identify and treat the root causes, supporting the body's most fundamental control system. It will also help you gain clarity on what’s been holding you back and why, so you are free to dream into and create what’s next for you.



Gain clarity on what is and what’s not working in all areas of your life so together, we can start designing your customized health, relationship, work and lifestyle plan.

Your guide: Dr. Debi



Rewire your body, mind and heart to become the next version of yourself capable of creating all you dream and desire.

Your guides: Dr. Debi and PBT Coaches Michelle, Peggy and Anar

P.M.: Your 2.0 Self Special Evening Event and Experience where you will SEE meet, greet and live as a version of yourself that is ecstatically happy, healthy, healed, confident and secure.



Create a personalized roadmap and the exact next steps needed to turn your dream into a reality. (You’ll even be IN ACTION on some of these items throughout the day.)

Your guides: Dr. Debi and PBT Coaches Michelle, Peggy and Anar


Often after a transformative experience like this, it can be challenging to build momentum; especially when you hit bumps in the road as you integrate back into your environment. We got you covered with this post-retreat connection and accountability call.

Your guide: Dr. Debi

Amazing Food!


  • Personal lifestyle/health scan
  • 2.5-day retreat packed with transformational activities
  • Ocean-front property for hosting
  • Catered meals - smoothies, snacks, dinner on Friday, breakfast, lunch & dinner on Saturday, and brunch on Sunday before you leave!
  • A personal gift from Dr. Debi & Team PBT

Not included:

  • Accommodations
  • Travel

I got exactly what I needed!


‘Thank you for founding PBT and creating this clarifying and cleansing retreat to help others who are actively searching for guidance and action oriented steps forward. Your vision and expertise in creating a synergistic team was so helpful. I got exactly what I needed at this stage of my healing to healed journey.’


Early Bird Payment Plan:



x 3 payments

Payment Plan after 5/31/23:



x 3 payments

Early Bird Pay in Full:



Save $278!

Pay in Full after 5/31/23:



Save $349!

I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW.


"I don't know if I've ever been this happy before. I'm so grateful for PBT-so blessed. I KNOW I'll get there and that it's just a work in progress! I'm almost crying as I'm writing this to you right now. Thank you so much again for PBT!!! When you said nothing else like this exists, you were so right because I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW. You're seriously such an angel!"

Glad I trusted myself enough to attend!


Before this retreat:  I felt like I was in a pretty strong healed state and not sure if I needed to attend; what it would do for me. But I really wanted to meet Dr. Debi, the team, as well as other PBT community members. 

After this retreat: Well ... growth is funny - you just don't know what you don't know! The exercises we did (and in that amazing healing energy of expert practitioners and fellow PBT members) really walked me through my own walls, old beliefs, held pain, and vision of what my life is becoming and can truly be. I am so grateful that I attended to really focus on the inner work with a clear heart, and with expert support in the room! The experiences opened my mind and heart to new ways of thinking, living and moving forward with purpose. My betrayal trauma really seemed to transform into a long ago chapter of my life that gave birth to a wonderful life now and ahead of me. 

Biggest takeaway: Trusting ourselves to know what we need is so hard in the days, months and years after intimate partner betrayal trauma. Above all else - ask and trust yourself to know what you need. It's all inside you and within your power, so listen with love, trust and courage.



“I came to the retreat not knowing exactly what to expect. It was very inspiring. Meeting other people listening to how to go through the Stages was very empowering. I walked out today realizing this was life changing. I'm thankful for meeting a lot of great people who think the same way that I do. We all had so much in common. At first they were strangers now they are family.

I wanted to thank you personally that I could be part of this amazing experience, I came back changed and also the 6 months’ work with you was the best investment I have done in myself, I will continue another six months in the Mastermind group and then I should be the new person I want to be.”

About Your Guides

Dr. Debi Silber

Dr. Debi Silber, PhD is the founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of Trust Again, and is a 2-time #1 International bestselling author of: The Unshakable Woman AND From Hardened to Healed. Her podcast: From Betrayal to Breakthrough is also globally ranked within the top 1.5% of podcasts. She’s also a Certified Personal Trainer, holistic Registered Dietitian with a Master’s in Nutrition earning specialty recognition in weight loss/weight maintenance, a Whole Health Coach, Functional Diagnostic Nutritionist, Certified in NES (BioEnergetics) Health, Emotion Code, Whole Person Integration Technique, and is a Quantum Human Design Specialist. Her PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she’s an award-winning speaker and coach dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most. Dr. Debi is the mom of 4 amazing entrepreneurial kids (Dani-27, Dylan-25, Camryn-22 and Cole-21), 2 incredible bonus daughters (the girlfriends of 2 of her kids), 4 dogs, and she married her husband Adam AGAIN after they both transformed due to their betrayal experience. She’s bringing together over 30 years of body, mind and lifestyle practices to create a life-changing experience.

Michelle Nagel

Michelle Nagel is a TEDx speaker, an international bestselling author, creator of R.O.A.R to Win, a Master Herbalist, A HeartMathTM Certified Trainer, and a Certified VibroAcoustic Therapist. For over 20 years Michelle has mentored and guided people through Transformation after Trauma and Betrayal, and healing core wounds. Personally endorsed by Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul books, Michelle has provided a safe, sacred place for people to do their deep inner work, transform their lives, and come out on the other side stronger, wiser, and happier.  


Where is the retreat taking place?

Sunny La Jolla in San Diego, California. Upon registration, you’ll receive the address for this beautiful and cozy space right on the coast of the Pacific Ocean.

What COVID precautions are being considered?

We’ll be following the local public health guidelines. Of course, if you’re feeling sick, please take precautions and stay home.

What do I need to bring with me?

Pack a journal, any snacks you like (while we’re feeding you, you may want your own snacks available), and we’ll send out an email about something special to pack (we have a surprise in store and don’t want to give it away!)

Where will I stay?

Accommodations are not included. However, there are many beautiful hotels within walking distance of the retreat location. We've made a list of them for your convenience below:

Are food sensitivities accommodated?

Absolutely! Please inform us of any food allergies or sensitivities. We’ll have smoothies, snacks, dinner on Friday, breakfast, lunch & dinner on Saturday, and brunch on Sunday before you leave!

What airport do I fly into?

San Diego (SAN) Airport is the closest airport.

What do I wear?

Comfortable clothes and layers in case you get cold/warm.

What can I expect from the retreat?

Bring an open mind and a willingness to play full out - remember, it takes new thoughts, behaviors, actions and insights to create something new and that’s what we’ll be doing together. Don’t worry, it won’t be too far out of your comfort zone-just enough to create results!

What's the schedule?

We’ll be doing your personalized scan and going over your results before the event so you can have a jumpstart. The sooner you register, the sooner we begin! We’ll start Friday morning until sundown, Saturday 9am-8pm (we have our special Saturday night activity but you’ll have plenty of breaks throughout the day), Sunday 8am-10 or 11am, and the post retreat call will be scheduled in March to keep your momentum going!

What's the refund policy?

If you need to cancel your trip we’re happy to oblige but you must do so before 6/14/23. Refunds will be issued less a $500 non-refundable deposit for processing fees. We apologize for any inconvenience!

Can I bring a friend?

You bet! Refer a friend and get $500 off your own ticket!

Who do I reach out to with additional questions?

Please reach out to Debi at Debi@PBTInstitute.com for any additional questions you may have!

The retreat has far exceeded my expectations!


“I was excited to come to this retreat, but I didn't know what to expect. I was nervous but I've been ready to really transform my life and heal from my betrayal. The retreat has far exceeded my expectations. We did so much deep work, and it was a great group of people to work with. I got so many benefits that I’ll take home and use to continue to do my work of transforming my life.

I had a hard time getting really connected to who Debbie 2.0 was. That we were able to each develop our own vision, then bring that vision to life with stories and imagining and developing the vision of who we wanted to be has been the most powerful thing. I feel like I can go home and have something to shoot for, a vision that I'm working towards, a vision that will create a whole new life for me. It’s very inspirational. Working with this team and other people really helped me because we fed off of each other, and we learned from each other and that's been a very dynamic process.”

You’ve waited long enough. You may even be feeling like you’ve wasted 20, 30 or more years not living, feeling, looking or performing your best. Anything is possible with the right tools, resources and support and we’re bringing it ALL together for you. We’re creating a roadmap for you to get there quickly. No more settling. It’s time to create a version of you that you’re going to love. Join us.

Can’t wait to support your transformation!

- Dr. Debi and Team PBT