The Only Research-Based System to fully Heal From Betrayal
If you’re exhausted from the pain, tired of pretending you’re okay, and ready to feel like yourself again…Reclaim is your proven path forward.
Betrayal can break you—but it doesn’t have to define you.
Whether it was a partner, a friend, a family member, or even yourself—you’re carrying the weight of it everywhere. In your body. In your relationships. In your thoughts.
You may be stuck in a cycle of anxiety, mistrust, exhaustion, anger… and still wondering, “Why can’t I just move on?”
That’s where Reclaim comes in.
Backed by research and rooted in our 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough®, Reclaim helps you:
- Finally sleep deeply—no more restless nights replaying what happened
- Put an end to the obsessive spirals and feel steady, grounded, and in control
- Rebuild fierce self-trust and know exactly where to draw the line in every relationship
- Release the resentment, grief, and shame that have been silently draining your joy
- Wake up with energy and clarity, excited about your future again
- Open your heart to trust again—without ever abandoning yourself again
Here’s why Reclaim works:
- Based on original PhD research on healing from betrayal
- Clinically proven to move you through the 5 Stages of Post Betrayal Transformation®
- Addresses the mental, emotional, physical, and identity-level impacts of betrayal
- Includes access to Certified PBT® Coaches who’ve lived it and transformed through it (Included in Momentum & Transform)
"Even though I have a lot of healing. I look at her program as a lifeline to keep me from drowning.”
- Briana
This Isn’t Just Healing—It’s an Upgrade.
Reclaim doesn’t just help you heal from betrayal—it helps you become
someone stronger, wiser, and more aligned than before.
“I am filled with gratitude and amazement at how far I’ve come in such a short time, (although some days were eternal...) I feel so different. I truly appreciate that this experience happened for me and not simply “to” me. Through the trauma healing resources here, I have come to a place of feeling I am privileged with an opportunity to consciously, compassionately and creatively live authentically. After valiantly seeking repair within the relationship for months, I am now liberated from the illusions I held that would make that possible.” - Leslie
Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all.
Choose the support level that fits where you are right now.
Heidi | Translator / interpreter
How PBT Institute Helped Me Find My Sunshine Again
“After 2 years of intensive therapy after the worst betrayal to date, 2 years during which I would sometimes see 3 different therapists and/or psychologists a week during several months, I did get to a place where I could go back to a certain normal and feel like myself again. However, I was now at almost a year and a half after all this work and had just finished therapy a few months back and I still felt overwhelmed with memories that acted as triggers that led to anger.
Today, as I write these lines, I am different because that kind of trauma is different from any other trauma and it needed the specific help the PBT Institute offers. Nothing else worked as efficiently and profoundly as this - and I do not mean to be disrespectful towards my beloved therapists and all the helpers I had before - : It is just that when you have a leg injury, you don’t go and see any surgeon but specifically an orthopedic surgeon.
Well, the same goes with trauma induced by betrayal, it is not just any trauma therapist or psychologist that can help but the team behind the PBT Institute. I say ‘team’ because it is also the remarkable work of Dr Debi that made it possible for me to benefit from all the weekly coaching and the masterclasses that cover so many useful topics when you want to get better overall.
So thank you to all who contribute to the PBT Institute being what I consider a groundbreaking therapy with a real and palpable positive effect in a life free of trauma after a betrayal. To anyone reading this: Go! Get you membership and let them help you be the most beautiful and capable and worthy person you can be! Your life restarts for the better after a betrayal and the PBT Institute will show you how to get there, at your own rhythm but trust me, the sunshine is coming, and it will be coming from within yourself!”
Stage 1 - Set the Foundation
Stabilize your nervous system, get out of the fog, and reconnect with your inner compass.
Stage 2 - Release the Trauma Loop
Understand what betrayal did to your brain, body, and beliefs & how to start reversing the damage.
Stage 3 - Rebuild the Self
Identify and replace the identity you created through pain with one rooted in truth, strength, and possibility.
Stage 4 - Expand Your Life
Now that you're clear, it's time to consciously build new standards in relationships, work, and wellbeing.
Stage 5 - Transformation
You’re no longer reacting to the betrayal. You're leading your life from a place of wholeness, purpose, and self-trust.
FAQs
As soon as you sign up, you have access to everything included in Reclaim - programs, coaching, community, and more.
Yes! Betrayal isn't specific to gender. We work with men and women to heal from their betrayals and transform their lives.
Within Reclaim Momentum, you get 1:1 coaching from any of our PBT coaches, regular support from Dr. Debi through group Coffee Chats where you can bring your questions directly to her, and you have unlimited access to our Client Care specialist to help you navigate the site and programs. With Transform, you get all that AND 1:1 coaching from Dr. Debi and exclusive Transform group coaching.
We take the guesswork out of healing. We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step.
Yes! You can extend your any program if you need more time after the initial 3 months. For now, dive fully in and see all that can happen in 90 days!
In Reclaim Momentum, you do not get direct 1:1 access to Dr. Debi. However, you do have the ability to speak with her and bring any questions you may have to the group Coffee Chats.
In Transform, you get 1:1 coaching with Dr. Debi and exclusive Transform group coaching with her as well! If you're looking for direct support from Dr. Debi, this is for you!
People Just Like You Have Healed with Reclaim
"Before Reclaim, I felt broken and shut down. I was skeptical, but now? I feel like the most honest, clear, and empowered version of myself I’ve ever been."
Sarah L.
"I used betrayal to transform every part of my life. This program gave me the tools, the map, and the support I didn’t even know I needed."
Jason R.
You’ve already survived the hardest part. Now it’s time to heal from your betrayal and Reclaim your life.