The Only Research-Based System to Fully Heal After Betrayal
We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step.
You’re not here to stay stuck. You're here to rise.
This program isn’t about rehashing the past. It’s about using what happened to create relationships, boundaries, confidence, and clarity you never had before. If you're done asking why this happened... and you're ready to ask, ‘Now what do I want to build from here?’ —this is your path.

This program is for people who:
Are done spinning in the story and ready to create real transformation
Are high-performing, self-aware, and done settling for surface-level healing
Want to rebuild all areas of life: relationships, health, career, confidence
Know there’s more waiting for them on the other side of betrayal

Here’s why Reclaim works:
- Based on original PhD research with over 85,000 participants
- Clinically proven to move you through the 5 Stages of Post Betrayal Transformation®
- Addresses the mental, emotional, physical, and identity-level impacts of betrayal
- Includes access to Certified PBT® Coaches who’ve lived it and transformed through it
"Even though I have a lot of healing. I look at her program as a lifeline to keep me from drowning.”
- Briana
This Isn’t Just Healing—It’s an Upgrade.
Reclaim doesn’t just help you feel better—it helps you become
someone stronger, wiser, and more aligned than before.
Here's what you get + more!
Betrayal to Breakthrough Curriculum
Follow a clear, step-by-step path through the 5 Stages of Post Betrayal Transformation®—from shock to complete healing and reinvention. Get exactly what you need at every stage, without the overwhelm.
Private 1:1 Coaching with PBT Coaches
Get 2 individual sessions each month with any Certified PBT Coach to help you overcome obstacles unique to your specific situation. High-impact clarity and support, tailored to your exact stage.
Private Community with Those Who Understand
Connect with others who truly get it—without judgment or pressure. 24/7 access for sharing wins, asking questions, or finding encouragement. You’re not alone in this—and never will be again.
Live Classes +
Coffee Chats
Join weekly classes with PBT® Coaches and casual Coffee Chats with Dr. Debi for real-time support, clarity, and connection. Expert guidance when you need it most.
Stage 1 - Set the Foundation
Stabilize your nervous system, get out of the fog, and reconnect with your inner compass.
Stage 2 - Release the Trauma Loop
Understand what betrayal did to your brain, body, and beliefs & how to start reversing the damage.
Stage 3 - Rebuild the Self
Identify and replace the identity you created through pain with one rooted in truth, strength, and possibility.
Stage 4 - Expand Your Life
Now that you're clear, it's time to consciously build new standards in relationships, work, and wellbeing.
Stage 5 - Transformation
You’re no longer reacting to the betrayal. You're leading your life from a place of wholeness, purpose, and self-trust.
FAQs
As soon as you sign up, you have access to everything included in Reclaim - programs, coaching, community, and more.
Yes! Betrayal isn't specific to gender. We work with men and women to heal from their betrayals and transform their lives.
Within our Reclaim program, you get 1:1 coaching from any of our PBT coaches, regular support from Dr. Debi through group Coffee Chats where you can bring your questions directly to her, and you have unlimited access to our Client Care specialist to help you navigate the site and programs. We do our best to provide support while also giving you the tools to run with our program at your own pace.
We take the guesswork out of healing. We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step. Reclaim includes every single thing you need to heal from your betrayal in one place.
Yes! You can extend your Reclaim program if you need more time after the initial 3 months. For now, dive fully in and see all that can happen in 90 days!
In our Reclaim program, you do not get direct 1:1 access to Dr. Debi. However, you do have the ability to speak with her and bring any questions you may have to the group Coffee Chats.
If you're looking for 1:1 coaching from Dr. Debi, we suggest applying to our Transform program.
People Just Like You Have Healed with Reclaim
"Before Reclaim, I felt broken and shut down. I was skeptical, but now? I feel like the most honest, clear, and empowered version of myself I’ve ever been."
Sarah L.
"I used betrayal to transform every part of my life. This program gave me the tools, the map, and the support I didn’t even know I needed."
Jason R.
You’ve already survived the hardest part. Now it’s time to Reclaim.