Episode 470: The Wall That Protected You Is Now Your Prison

In this powerful and important episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Chris Yadon, Executive Director of Saprea, a nonprofit dedicated to the prevention of childhood sexual abuse (CSA) and healing for survivors. Chris shares his own journey — growing up amid instability, learning to emotionally numb as a child — and how that personal experience became the foundation for his professional mission at Saprea.

Together, Dr. Debi and Chris explore why childhood sexual abuse is such a uniquely devastating betrayal: in 80% of cases, the perpetrator is someone the child knows and trusts. They unpack the psychology of trauma bonding, betrayal blindness, and why survivors often don’t recognize the abuse as abnormal until young adulthood. Chris explains the three forces that keep CSA under-reported — shame, trauma bonding, and perpetrator threats — and why these silencers persist well into adulthood.

They also discuss the lasting impacts of unhealed childhood sexual abuse, including sobering statistics: 85% of survivors who don’t address their trauma will develop a mental health disorder by age 30, and survivors are three times more likely to attempt suicide than the general population. From substance use to eating disorders, anxiety to depression, the cost of not healing is profound — and it shows up at work, in relationships, and in every corner of life.

Chris shares Saprea’s prevention model, the role parents and caregivers play in reducing risk on both sides, and how healing can begin at any age. He closes with a beautiful, hope-filled story of Kaya Noah — a survivor whose emotional walls came down in a snowfall — and three memorable takeaways about connection, community, and courage.

If you or someone you love is a survivor, this episode carries a clear and compassionate message: healing is possible. And the resources are free.

🔗 Learn more: saprea.org
📌 Find Chris on LinkedIn or Substack: search “Yadon”