We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step.
Reclaim is a comprehensive betrayal recovery program designed to help you heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and restore your sense of self. If you're done asking why this happened... and you're ready to ask, ‘Now what do I want to build from here?’ —this is your path to fully heal from your betrayal and change your life.
Are done spinning in the story and ready to create real transformation
Are high-performing, self-aware, and done settling for surface-level healing
Want to rebuild all areas of life: relationships, health, career, confidence
Know there’s more waiting for them on the other side of betrayal
"Even though I have a lot of healing. I look at her program as a lifeline to keep me from drowning.”
- Briana
Reclaim doesn’t just help you heal from betrayal—it helps you become
someone stronger, wiser, and more aligned than before.
A Little About Me
My name is Ingrid Kruiter, I love nature, road trips, camping under the stars, cycling, reading, live music, deep conversations, and the kind of laughter that makes your stomach hurt. Originally from the Netherlands, I’ve called Kenya home for the past 12 years, and it’s one of the best places I know for all the things I love!
I’ve always been passionate about understanding how people give meaning to their life experience and the incredible resilience we have within us. I believe life is meant to be lived fully and yet, I know firsthand how pain and betrayal can make us shrink, doubt, and question everything.
My Journey to Coaching
In 2017, I became an NLP-certified Life Coach, and that journey changed my life. Since then, I’ve added certifications in Post Betrayal Transformation, Trauma Recovery, Breathwork, Systemic Work, and Leadership & People Management. In 2019, I founded my own coaching company.
Over the years, I’ve worked with clients from all over the world: Kenya, the Netherlands, the U.K., India, the U.S., Spain, Canada, Germany, Dubai, Zimbabwe, Denmark, Norway, Somalia, Colombia, Ethiopia, France, Ireland, Burkina Faso, Italy, Switzerland, and Qatar. No matter where we come from, we all share the same human experience. We have dreams and fears, we have stories of love, loss, resilience, and we have the ability to heal.
Betrayal shakes you but doesn’t define you!
In 2023, my life took an unexpected turn. I discovered that my relationship had been built on deception from the very beginning. My space was no longer my safe space and in hindsight had never been safe and that everything I believed to be true about our relationship.
The healing journey was messy, raw, and painful. I had to grieve, face uncomfortable truths, and really look at my own patterns — where I had ignored red flags, settled for breadcrumbs, and rationalized away gut feelings.
Even with all my coaching experience, I realized that betrayal trauma is different. It cuts deep, and it needs a specific approach to healing. Determined to heal — and to turn pain into purpose, I pursued additional certifications with the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute (PBT®) in the U.S., where I now work alongside Dr. Debi Silber, a leading expert in betrayal trauma.
PBT® – Kenya!
I am super excited that we are launching Post Betrayal Transformation (PBT®) Kenya!
Bringing this powerful, research-backed healing framework to Kenya is an incredible honor. Having personally experienced the impact of betrayal and the transformative power of this work, I know how life-changing it can be.
As the first and only PBT® Coach in Kenya, I am thrilled to offer a safe space for healing, growth, and rebuilding trust — both in ourselves and in others. If you’re ready to move from heartbreak to empowerment, I can’t wait to walk this journey with you! Whether you’re dealing with betrayal in a romantic relationship, family, friendship, or workplace, you can heal, rebuild, and even come out stronger than before.
Betrayal to Breakthrough Curriculum
Our betrayal recovery course guides you through each stage, offering tools and support to overcome betrayal and foster emotional healing. Get exactly what you need at every stage, without the overwhelm.
Private 1:1 Coaching
Online & Hybrid members get private coaching sessions each month with Coach Ingrid to help you overcome obstacles unique to your specific situation. High-impact clarity and support, tailored to your exact stage.
Coffee Chats with Coach Ingrid
Online & Hybrid members can accelerate your healing with monthly group coaching sessions with Coach Ingrid. These live group coaching sessions offer high-impact support, strategic insight, and grounded encouragement. It's expert guidance when you need it most.
Stage 1 - Set the Foundation
Stabilize your nervous system, get out of the fog, and reconnect with your inner compass.
Stage 2 - Release the Trauma Loop
Understand what betrayal did to your brain, body, and beliefs & how to start reversing the damage.
Stage 3 - Rebuild the Self
Identify and replace the identity you created through pain with one rooted in truth, strength, and possibility.
Stage 4 - Expand Your Life
Now that you're clear, it's time to consciously build new standards in relationships, work, and wellbeing.
Stage 5 - Transformation
You’re no longer reacting to the betrayal. You're leading your life from a place of wholeness, purpose, and self-trust.
Plan your path to transformation with us.
You have access to everything included in the Reclaim program of your choice as soon as you sign up.
Yes! Trauma from betrayal isn't specific to gender. We've worked with both men and women to successfully heal from their betrayals and transform their lives.
With our Reclaim Online and Reclaim Hybrid programs, you get personal 1:1 coaching as well as group Coffee Chats with Coach Ingrid where you can bring your questions directly to her. Members tell us that this combination of tools from our Betrayal to Breakthrough coursework plus customized coaching from Coach Ingrid is invaluable towards their growth and healing.
We take the guesswork out of healing. We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step. Reclaim includes every single thing you need to heal from your betrayal in one place.
Yes! You can extend your Reclaim program if you need more time after the initial 3 months. For now, dive fully in and see all that can happen in 90 days!
For personalized coaching, choose the Reclaim Online or Hybrid program, which include 1:1 sessions with Coach Ingrid and group Coffee Chats for your questions. The Reclaim Starter program doesn't grant access to direct 1:1 access to Coach Ingrid.
I would recommend Ingrid's post betrayal class to everyone looking for a coaching session that's inclusive and structured. Ingrid's coaching style has a way of bringing you to articulate the issue you are facing.
The sessions are quite in-depth and there's a lot to learn. I had done a different session a couple of years back but it wasn't until Ingrid's class that I was able to give a name to the emotion that I had been dealing with for several years.
A truly remarkable experience that allowed me to take the necessary bold steps of showing up for me. It brought to light so many habits that had served me in the past but that were no longer working for me.
It helped me let go and work on my self limiting beliefs while taking up fresh and empowering beliefs.
Some time ago at a time of huge stress in my career I suffered a betrayal incident resulting in financial losses, emotional damage, damage to the business and massive loss of self-belief and confidence.
Whilst the business is sorted, I continued to battle with the mental scars for quite some time believing I could ride it out. I’m a big tough guy, right?
But sometimes you need some help and to talk it out with a pro. A course with Ingrid really helped me focus on myself, gave me skills to cope and she gave me the guidance and confidence to believe in myself, to rise again.
Ingrid helped me to believe in yourself and assisted me in gaining the confidence to focus on the future and deliver my life goals instead of focusing on the people and issues of the past. If you are ready to try, to help yourself then give it a go.
I completed the betrayal course with Ingrid, and it brought practical, meaningful changes to my daily life. I was coming out of a toxic and difficult period, and I needed extra support to complement my weekly therapy.
I felt the need for practical tools to help me begin a new chapter and move beyond the harmful cycle of negative thoughts. Ingrid provided the support and strength I needed to start fresh.
She equipped me with tools to process the betrayal, refocus on self-care, and reconnect with the 'new me.' I’ve regained my self-esteem and finally started to see myself as an individual again. While the healing process is ongoing with its ups and downs, Ingrid helped lay the foundation for my new lifestyle.
I can’t thank her enough for her support and the empathy she showed me during such a difficult time. There is hope, and Ingrid is an invaluable resource in starting this new journey of self-love and putting ourselves at the center of our own lives.
Working with Ingrid, has been instrumental in me navigating the journey from Betrayal to Breakthrough in my time with The PBT.
I was super lucky to have found her by watching one of her incredible Masterclasses, and I knew I needed to work with her! She did not disappoint. Ingrid has been there for me and helped me every step of the way.
I have come SO far as a result of the powerful conversations we have had.
I was so worried I was never going to be able to heal from betrayal, but Ingrid simplified the whole journey and made it understandable so that I knew the steps I was taking were the right ones, based on where I was.
Ingrid is exceptional at helping you deal with the nuances of betrayal, without getting lost in the story or emotion so that you can actually see your way forward! Her feedback is always clear, concise and easily digestible.
She is totally non-judgmental and super fun to be around! If you have the opportunity to work with her, consider it a tremendous blessing.
You’ve already survived the hardest part. Now it’s time to heal from your betrayal and Reclaim your life.
