The Only Research-Based System to fully Heal From Betrayal
We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step.
You’re not here to stay stuck. You're here to rise.
Reclaim is a comprehensive betrayal recovery program designed to help you heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and restore your sense of self. If you're done asking why this happened... and you're ready to ask, ‘Now what do I want to build from here?’ —this is your path to fully heal from your betrayal and change your life.
This program is for people who:
Are done spinning in the story and ready to create real transformation
Are high-performing, self-aware, and done settling for surface-level healing
Want to rebuild all areas of life: relationships, health, career, confidence
Know there’s more waiting for them on the other side of betrayal
Here’s why Reclaim works:
- Based on original PhD research with over 85,000 participants
- Clinically proven to move you through the 5 Stages of Post Betrayal Transformation®
- Addresses the mental, emotional, physical, and identity-level impacts of betrayal
- Includes access to Certified PBT® Coaches who’ve lived it and transformed through it
"Even though I have a lot of healing. I look at her program as a lifeline to keep me from drowning.”
- Briana
This Isn’t Just Healing—It’s an Upgrade.
Reclaim doesn’t just help you heal from betrayal—it helps you become
someone stronger, wiser, and more aligned than before.
Meet your Coach
Meet Coach Ingrid
A Little About Me
My name is Ingrid Kruiter, I love nature, road trips, camping under the stars, cycling, reading, live music, deep conversations, and the kind of laughter that makes your stomach hurt. Originally from the Netherlands, I’ve called Kenya home for the past 12 years, and it’s one of the best places I know for all the things I love!
I’ve always been passionate about understanding how people give meaning to their life experience and the incredible resilience we have within us. I believe life is meant to be lived fully and yet, I know firsthand how pain and betrayal can make us shrink, doubt, and question everything.
My Journey to Coaching
In 2017, I became an NLP-certified Life Coach, and that journey changed my life. Since then, I’ve added certifications in Post Betrayal Transformation, Trauma Recovery, Breathwork, Systemic Work, and Leadership & People Management. In 2019, I founded my own coaching company.
Over the years, I’ve worked with clients from all over the world: Kenya, the Netherlands, the U.K., India, the U.S., Spain, Canada, Germany, Dubai, Zimbabwe, Denmark, Norway, Somalia, Colombia, Ethiopia, France, Ireland, Burkina Faso, Italy, Switzerland, and Qatar. No matter where we come from, we all share the same human experience. We have dreams and fears, we have stories of love, loss, resilience, and we have the ability to heal.
Betrayal shakes you but doesn’t define you!
In 2023, my life took an unexpected turn. I discovered that my relationship had been built on deception from the very beginning. My space was no longer my safe space and in hindsight had never been safe and that everything I believed to be true about our relationship.
The healing journey was messy, raw, and painful. I had to grieve, face uncomfortable truths, and really look at my own patterns — where I had ignored red flags, settled for breadcrumbs, and rationalized away gut feelings.
Even with all my coaching experience, I realized that betrayal trauma is different. It cuts deep, and it needs a specific approach to healing. Determined to heal — and to turn pain into purpose, I pursued additional certifications with the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute (PBT®) in the U.S., where I now work alongside Dr. Debi Silber, a leading expert in betrayal trauma.
PBT® – Kenya!
I am super excited that we are launching Post Betrayal Transformation (PBT®) Kenya!
Bringing this powerful, research-backed healing framework to Kenya is an incredible honor. Having personally experienced the impact of betrayal and the transformative power of this work, I know how life-changing it can be.
As the first and only PBT® Coach in Kenya, I am thrilled to offer a safe space for healing, growth, and rebuilding trust — both in ourselves and in others. If you’re ready to move from heartbreak to empowerment, I can’t wait to walk this journey with you! Whether you’re dealing with betrayal in a romantic relationship, family, friendship, or workplace, you can heal, rebuild, and even come out stronger than before.
Here's what you get + more!
Betrayal to Breakthrough Curriculum
Our betrayal recovery course guides you through each stage, offering tools and support to overcome betrayal and foster emotional healing. Get exactly what you need at every stage, without the overwhelm.
Private 1:1 Coaching
Get 2 individual sessions each month with Coach Ingrid to help you overcome obstacles unique to your specific situation. High-impact clarity and support, tailored to your exact stage.
Coffee Chats with Coach Ingrid
Accelerate your healing with Coffee Chats with Coach Ingrid. These live sessions offer high-impact support, strategic insight, and grounded encouragement. Expert guidance when you need it most.
Stage 1 - Set the Foundation
Stabilize your nervous system, get out of the fog, and reconnect with your inner compass.
Stage 2 - Release the Trauma Loop
Understand what betrayal did to your brain, body, and beliefs & how to start reversing the damage.
Stage 3 - Rebuild the Self
Identify and replace the identity you created through pain with one rooted in truth, strength, and possibility.
Stage 4 - Expand Your Life
Now that you're clear, it's time to consciously build new standards in relationships, work, and wellbeing.
Stage 5 - Transformation
You’re no longer reacting to the betrayal. You're leading your life from a place of wholeness, purpose, and self-trust.
Coaching Packages
Plan your path to transformation with us.
FAQs
As soon as you sign up, you have access to everything included in the Reclaim program you choose.
Yes! Betrayal isn't specific to gender. We work with men and women to heal from their betrayals and transform their lives.
Within our Reclaim Online and Reclaim Hybrid programs, you get 1:1 coaching from Coach Ingrid and regular support from Dr. Debi through group Coffee Chats where you can bring your questions directly to her.
We do our best to provide support while also giving you the tools to run with our program at your own pace.
We take the guesswork out of healing. We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step. Reclaim includes every single thing you need to heal from your betrayal in one place.
Yes! You can extend your Reclaim program if you need more time after the initial 3 months. For now, dive fully in and see all that can happen in 90 days!
In our Reclaim Starter program, you do not get direct 1:1 access to Coach Ingrid. However, you do have the ability to speak with her and bring any questions you may have to the group Coffee Chats.
If you're looking for 1:1 coaching from Coach Ingrid, we suggest choosing either the Reclaim Online or Reclaim Hybrid program.
People Just Like You Have Healed with Reclaim
"Before Reclaim, I felt broken and shut down. I was skeptical, but now? I feel like the most honest, clear, and empowered version of myself I’ve ever been."
Sarah L.
"I used betrayal to transform every part of my life. This program gave me the tools, the map, and the support I didn’t even know I needed."
Jason R.
You’ve already survived the hardest part. Now it’s time to heal from your betrayal and Reclaim your life.
