Episode Summary
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Kanchan Bhaskar, a woman who has truly experienced and overcome adversity. From growing up in a progressive family in India to enduring an abusive arranged marriage, Kanchan shares how she found her strength, reclaimed her identity, and built a new life for herself and her children.
Her journey is one of resilience, courage, and empowerment, and today, she shares the wisdom she gained along the way. If you’ve ever felt trapped in a situation and unsure of your next step, this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
- The reality of arranged marriages in India and the cultural expectations placed on women
- How Kanchan navigated an abusive marriage and the challenges of leaving
- The critical moment that changed her mindset and helped her reclaim her power
- The importance of financial independence in escaping toxic situations
- How she built resilience and mental strength to rise above her circumstances
- The role of unexpected “angels” in guiding her to a new path
- Why breaking free from limiting beliefs is key to transformation
- The power of forgiveness, self-worth, and taking action
Key Takeaways & Quotes
- “When the pain of where you are becomes greater than the fear of the unknown, we jump.”
- “I looked in the mirror and asked — where is that confident woman? She is still inside me.”
- “You must have a safety plan in place — your future depends on it.”
- “There are always people who will show up at the right time — pay attention.”
Resources & Links
- Leaving: How I Set Myself Free From an Abusive Marriage, by Kanchan Bhaskar
- KanchanBhaskarCoach.com
- Follow Kanchan on Instagram
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