Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.

You deserve this.

Move through the 5 Stage proven and predictable, research-based roadmap to go from betrayal to breakthrough.

I feel ready to move past all that has been holding me back and step into my new future.
I know there are no promises for my future but I do know I am equipped to handle them thanks to you, your program, and your counselors. Thanking for helping me find me again!


Does this sound familiar?

  • You feel like you’ve been punched in the gut. Your life as you’ve known it has totally shattered. The person you loved and trusted the most pulled the rug out from underneath you.
  • You're overwhelmed & not sure what to do next. You don't know who to trust.
  • You’re exhausted and can barely scrape yourself off the floor. It takes everything you’ve got to just make it through another day.
  • You feel rejected and abandoned. You’re afraid - how are you going to survive this on your own when you don't even trust yourself anymore?
  • You’re ashamed of what’s happened and are struggling in silence.
  • You’ve been numbing out with food, alcohol, work, and more to cope with the betrayal.
  • You’re struggling with physical, mental, and emotional issues such as anxiety, depression, rage, brain fog, fatigue, insomnia, gut issues, weight changes and more.
  • Your confidence has plummeted and it’s causing problems for you at work and home.

What if this was your reality instead?

  • You’ve healed the hurt. You now feel a sense of peace and calm.
  • You're clear on your next steps and you have support to take them.
  • You have the energy to do what’s most important to you each day. And eventually, you have the energy it takes to create your new body, business, relationship, and life.
  • You feel confident and secure. You have the tools you need to thrive and most importantly, you’ve regained trust in yourself and your judgment.
  • You realize the betrayal wasn’t about you, you’re not crazy, you’re not alone and you can heal from it. You’re relieved to be getting the right type of support.
  • Your healing has catapulted now that you’re no longer numbing out.
  • You’ve healed from all the stress-related symptoms and illnesses. You’re healthier, stronger, wiser and better, all for having moved through and beyond the betrayal.
  • Your confidence has soared and you’re experiencing new exciting opportunities in all areas of your life.


I’m the Founder of the PBT® (Post Betrayal Transformation®) Institute. Over the last 30+ years, I’ve supported thousands of people to heal physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

In everything I’ve seen and in all the people I’ve worked with, I’ve come to believe that betrayal is one of the most painful experiences we can ever have. How do I know? I’ve been there.

It was my own betrayals, first from my family and then from my husband, that shattered my heart, trust, and life as I’d known it.

It didn’t make any sense. These were the people I loved and trusted. How could they hurt me like that? If I couldn’t count on or feel safe with the people I trusted the most, who could I trust? How would I navigate through this crisis while running my business, being there for my 4 kids, clients, and 6 dogs, too? How could I make sense of this and how would I ever be able to heal my mind, body, and heart?

My desperation to understand betrayal led me to get a PhD in Transpersonal Psychology (the psychology of transformation and human potential). While there I did a groundbreaking study that led to the creation of a research-based, proven and predictable way to fully heal. The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute was born.

I applied everything I learned to my own life. As I saw how it worked and contributed to my healing and transformation, I brought it into my work with clients, too. I was thrilled to see how this method was working with people who had tried everything before coming to me.

At the time, there was no program like this that addressed all areas of healing: mind, body, spirit, that are impacted by betrayal, and that delivered the specific kinds of support required to heal. 

So, I created The PBT Institute and our Reclaim Program.

I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW.


"I don't know if I've ever been this happy before. I'm so grateful for PBT-so blessed. I KNOW I'll get there and that it's just a work in progress! I'm almost crying as I'm writing this to you right now. Thank you so much again for PBT!!! When you said nothing else like this exists, you were so right because I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW. You're seriously such an angel!"

The PBT Institute's Reclaim Program

Join Reclaim to gain access to all the tools you need to heal from your betrayal. Learn from those who’ve been there, who get it and who are dedicated to helping you heal from your betrayal.

I’ve brought together the key components required to heal:






Curated Experts

Private One-on-One Coaching

  • Two private, one-on-one sessions each month with any of our Certified PBT Coaches and Practitioners so you can overcome obstacles unique to your specific situation.
  • Our Certified PBT Coaches and Practitioners specialize in a variety of topics and modalities so you can find your best fit.

Classes with Certified PBT Coaches and Practitioners

  • Gain insight, clarity and understanding of your unique situation through daily classes in areas such as: Trauma, Narcissism, Self-Betrayal, Sex & Porn Addiction, Reconciliation, Chronic Pain Management, Health & Fitness Training, IntraPersonal Relationships, Drug & Alcohol Addictions and so many more.
  • Delivered LIVE and all replays available in your library.

Live Q&As With Dr. Debi

  • Members get to benefit from Dr. Debi’s 30+ years of experience during these rich and dynamic Q&A Calls.
  • You’ll have access to the LIVE calls to ask your own questions and get instant answers or listen to the recordings anytime.

Masterclasses With Special Experts

  • Top leaders in their field are brought in to share their insight and expertise with our Members in these curated Masterclasses held at least once per month. 
  • Topics include: Burnout, Hormones, Trauma, Breathwork, Soul Contracts, Emotional Eating, Forgiveness, Energy Healing, Intuition, Shadow-Work, Boundaries, Thriving As An Empath and/or Highly Sensitive Person, Body-Mind-Connection, and more

Foundational Signature PBT Programs

  • Betrayal to Breakthrough teaches you the exact steps needed to take you through the 5 Stages so you can fully heal from your betrayal.
  • Each module contains video, audio, experiential activities and downloadable worksheets.

Private and Secure Community Forums

  • End the isolation with access to a community of people going through situations similar to yours 24/7 where you can ask questions, get input, share celebrations and so much more.
  • Connect with a like-minded community all dedicated to supporting, uplifting and inspiring each other. 

Fortunately, I chose to invest in myself.


"When I started working with PBT a few months ago, I was a hot mess. I didn’t trust anyone...especially myself. Fortunately, I chose to invest in myself and over these past months, have done all the work to transform myself into a happy, thriving, confident woman who could not be more grateful and excited about the rest of her life. Thank you, PBT!"

My healing / transformation is already taking place!


It's been a short time and my healing/transformation is already taking place! Every day something new comes up in my awareness, something that I have either oppressed or forgotten about. My poor heart has been holding so much pain for so many years. I consider ‘encouraged’ not a strong enough word in my case. Not only do I feel encouraged, I am totally committed to this process. This is sooo happening!
I also feel that I’ve found the right place here at PBT Institute. So happy and grateful that Debi decided to “take the rest of us with her” after having done her research and discoveries. I’m all Hallelujah! because I needed this so desperately, you have no idea.
Thanks to all of you for doing what you do.

A Personal Note From Dr. Debi

You’ve been through the worst already. You can’t change it and you can’t undo it.

But you can control what you do with it.

You deserve to heal. You deserve to take your power back. You deserve to look, feel, and live better.

This experience of betrayal doesn’t have to define you anymore. You’re meant for so much more.

With the support of the PBT Institute and our incredible community, you’re able to feel safe again, trust again, and love again. You’re also able to create a stronger, wiser version of yourself that wouldn’t have been able to show up now had you not gone through what you have.

Whether the experience is new or happened decades ago…

Whether you’ve been numbing yourself, attempting to outrun the betrayal for decades and have resigned yourself to thinking this is as good as it gets, or you know something more is possible yet haven’t known how to get there on your own…

I’m here to tell you SO MUCH MORE is available to you. You do not have to stay in struggle or survival mode on your own anymore. Let me show you the proven path from betrayal to breakthrough. When you move through the painful experience, you create something so much better.

Let’s get you feeling better!

To your transformation,
Dr. Debi

"Before I began this course, healing was not possible. I offer my sincerest appreciate & gratitude for what you do & how you do it. You've changed my life.”


"Even though I have a lot of healing. I look at her program as a lifeline to keep me from drowning.”


"After years of reading, studying, listening to all sorts of opinions on each of the topics you brought me through these few weeks, I finally have the direction to uncover the person I am meant to be! My sincere thanks.”


PBT community changed my life.

I can’t say enough how you and the PBT community changed my life. I could not do this healing journey without you.  I was living in despair for 40 years and couldn’t figure out why. I had denied being betrayed and was living a numbed life physically and emotionally. I didn’t know who I was. I was just going through the motions of taking care of my family and didn’t realize I had lost my soul for all those years. I’ve learned through you that betrayal is a different kind of pain. It stripped me of my identity and 40 years of my life.

You have given me tools to dig deep within myself to discover my true self. It was crucial that  I must acknowledge the pain in order to grow through it. Thanks for “holding my hand” through the 5 stages of betrayal. I never looked at pain as an opportunity for healing. Something I would never have done without your guidance. Thanks.

Through all the tears, anger, insecurities, and fears you were right there for me. Thanks.

Thanks for always encouraging me to push forward. I am sooooo much better than I ever had been. I really like myself. I no longer neglect my feeling. I speak up. I know I deserve to be loved and cared for. I’m not what happened to me.  What happened to me were stepping stones upward to opportunities toward happiness and joy. Thank You for guiding me through my healing journey. I am a brand new me and I owe it all to you and the PBT community.

With A Grateful Heart to Dr. Debi and the PBT Community,”

Again I Say Thank You! ❤️



When does Reclaim start?

Once you join, you’ll immediately receive your welcome information assessment which helps us create your personalized approach for best results. As soon as you’ve completed that, we walk you through the next steps so you’re not overwhelmed and know exactly what to do. 

Is this for men and women?

Yes! Betrayal isn't specific to gender. We work with men and women to heal from their betrayals and transform their lives.

How much support will I get?

You’ll receive lots of support during your 90-day jumpstart. You will receive support from our Client Care Specialist, our Certified Coaches/Practitioners, our Community Engagement Manager Stephanie and Dr. Debi too. Then there’s lots of support within the community from other members too. Want to remain anonymous? That’s OK too. You will have access to classes, Dr. Debi’s group coaching “coffee chats”, along with private sessions with a certified PBT Coach or Practitioner.

Will I get 1:1 time with Dr. Debi?

Everyone gets a personalized welcome video! And, you can ask Dr. Debi questions during live small group coaching sessions.

How does the community work?

You’ll be able to login, access course materials, attend classes and schedule with Certified Coaches or Practitioners immediately after your onboarding process is complete.

Is there a guarantee?

Yep. We know this process works-remember, Dr. Debi did the study that made the discoveries on what helps us heal from betrayal and what holds us back so what she learned is exactly what’s included in your membership. We also know that it takes the right combination of Coaching, Classes, Community, Connection, Content and Curated Experts. You need to put in the time and effort and you need to be willing to move forward (believe it or not, willingness has SO much to do with it.) Having said that, if you do a combination of all of those things and don’t want to work with Dr. Debi and the team or community any longer, you can cancel and leave the membership community at any time.

Why should I choose Reclaim?

  • Reclaim is for you if you need support, community and a roadmap to heal. You will also receive accountability with coaches, including live support from Dr. Debi and the guest experts. Coaching is a great way to increase your momentum.

Can I stay longer?

We have 2 options to join us based on your needs and preferences that you will have access to once you complete the Reclaim program. For now, dive fully in and see all that can happen in 90 days!

What is it like inside?

Imagine a community where you can interact with other members (who understand what you’re healing from because they’re healing from it too), where you can take a longer or shorter program with videos, audios and experiential activities, register for group classes, attend masterclasses with specially curated experts in a variety of different specialties, schedule time with coaches/practitioners and special small group coaching with Dr. Debi (along with additional group calls with a Transform membership). Imagine a place that offers everything you need to help you heal from betrayal with all of the support you need from people who get it, all in one place. Yep, it’s pretty special in there.

What type of Curated Experts are you bringing in?

Specialists in the areas of health, spirituality, divorce/mediation, creativity...basically experts who have a specialty that can help you physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically or spiritually.

How do the group calls work?

All groups meet via zoom which is free. Once you find a class you want to attend, you’ll find a link in the calendar that takes you to a page with the corresponding Zoom link. You can join the calls via video or phone.

What kind of results will I have?

That’s kind of like going to the gym and asking that same question. The results depend on you. We know how well the coursework, community, support and more all work to ensure results...but you need to do the work to see for yourself. 

To get an idea of the possibilities, check out the testimonials on this page.

"Debi Silber has the ability to blend knowledge, experience, enthusiasm and compassion to help people create the body, lifestyle and life they crave.”

Jack Canfield

Co-Author of the Bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul Series and The Success

“Debi Silber offers a clear and effective approach to moving forward after an experience with betrayal.”

Marci Shimoff

#1 New York Times best-selling author of Happy for No Reason and featured teacher in The Secret

"Debi shows you how to develop a lifestyle full of health, energy and vitality that you may have never experienced before!"

Brian Tracy

Author of 55 books in 38 languages

"Betrayal is intensely painful but Debi reveals the pain remedy you need to heal, regroup, and move forward with strength and love.

Dr Joe Vitale

International Best-Selling Author of Zero Limits and The Miracle

“After an experience with betrayal, it can be especially challenging to get unstuck and have the motivation we need to rebuild our health and our lives. Debi’s research-based protocol, combined with her own story and those she’s helped, teaches us how to trust again.”

Mary Morrissey

Mary Morrissey

International speaker and bestselling author

"Debi Silber has created a simple system to improve your body, mind, image and lifestyle. More companies and individuals need to 'get their mojo back' and Debi can help!"

Marshall Goldsmith

 New York Times and million-copy bestselling author of MOJO and What Got You Here Won't Get You There

"You are in good hands."

Wm Paul Young

Author of the book and movie, The Shack

“Debi Silber has given us a step-by-step approach in order to use the painful experience of betrayal as a launchpad for transformation.”

Dr. Marilyn Schlitz

PhD chair, Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, Sofia University

"If you want to have a balanced, successful life professionally or personally you’ve got to work with my friend Debi and here’s why. She gives you how to balance everything, She teaches you how to have a healthy body, healthy mind, healthy image and healthy lifestyle. Call Debi today, coach with her, listen to her, let her show you how to improve your personal and professional life!"

James Malinchak

Featured on the ABC TV Show, “Secret Millionaire”, Coauthor of the Top-Selling Chicken Soup for the College Soul

“While we may choose to be more guarded and protective in response to broken trust, it disconnects us from our source, ourselves, and others. Debi shows us how to trust again so we can reconnect and become who we’re fully meant to be.”

Dr. Sue Morter

Author of The Energy Codes