Learn How to Heal from Betrayal

Regain trust in yourself and others so you can to establish the confidence and security needed to gain control over your life again.

Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, trust, and love again.

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Wouldn’t you love to heal the hurt and gain a sense of peace after your betrayal?

Does this sound familiar?

  • You feel stuck, frustrated, and confused, unable to move on from the hurt.
  • You’ve been numbing the pain with food, alcohol, work, and more to cope with the betrayal.
  • You’re exhausted and can barely scrape yourself off the floor. It takes everything you’ve got to just make it through another day.
  • You're overwhelmed & not sure what to do next. You don't know who to trust.

So many people feel like they can’t move on from their betrayal because they don’t have the right tools and support to do so.

The PBT® Institute is your solution.

Create a stronger, wiser version of you that wouldn’t have been able to show up had you not gone through and healed from your betrayal.


I’m the Founder of the PBT® (Post Betrayal Transformation®) Institute. Over the last 30+ years, I’ve supported thousands of people to heal physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
In everything I’ve seen and in all the people I’ve worked with, I’ve come to believe that betrayal is one of the most painful experiences we can ever have. How do I know? I’ve been there.

It was my own betrayals, first from my family and then from my husband, that shattered my heart, trust, and life as I’d known it.

My desperation to understand betrayal led me to get a PhD where I did a groundbreaking study that led to the creation of a research-based, proven, and predictable way to fully heal. The PBT® (Post Betrayal Transformation®) Institute was born.

What level of support do you need?

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Trust Again 2.0


Who's It For?

This is a quick and effective, 5-day program that will jump start your healing. This is a great option for someone who doesn't have much time or resources to dedicate to healing.

What's Included?
  • Lifetime access to Dr. Debi's signature Trust Again program 
  • Daily homework after each class during the 5-day program
  • Experiential activities

Most Popular


$997 / 3 months

Who's It For?

This is our most popular option! If you're ready to heal your betrayal entirely, this is for you. No matter where you are in your post betrayal journey, our Reclaim membership is a fit.

What's Included?
  • Signature PBT® Programs
  • 1:1 Coaching with PBT® Coaches and Practitioners
  • Live  Classes
  • Live Q&As with Dr. Debi
  • Private Community
  • Masterclasses

Work with Dr. Debi


By Application

Who's It For?

This high-level program is exclusive for those ready to take their healing to the next level working directly with Dr. Debi.

What's Included?
  • 1:1 Coaching with Dr. Debi
  • Transform Group Calls
  • Unlimited access to Dr. Debi via email
  • Signature PBT® Programs
  • 1:1 Coaching with PBT® Coaches and practitioners
  • Live Classes
  • Live Q&As with Dr. Debi
  • Private Community
  • Masterclasses

Special for the Betrayer


$997 / 3 months

Who's It For?

Rebuild is for those who are ready to stop betraying the ones they love. Get to the root of why you betray, how to end it, and how to help the one(s) you hurt in this 90-day program. 

What's Included?
  • Signature PBT® Programs
  • 1:1 Coaching with PBT® Coaches & Practitioners
  • Live Q&As with Dr. Debi
  • Private Community
  • Masterclasses
  • The Rebuild Roadmap:  A playbook on what and what not to say and do to help your partner heal.


When I started working with PBT six months ago, I was a hot mess. I didn’t trust anyone...especially myself. Fortunately, I chose to invest in myself and over these past months, have done all the work to transform myself into a happy, thriving, confident woman who could not be more grateful and excited about the rest of her life. Thank you, PBT!


I joined 10 months after d-day. I was floundering, getting nowhere. I tried therapy, different communities, groups, videos, podcasts, etc. But still was going in circles. PBT was a godsend. Without PBT, I think I would still be a mess.


I don't know if I've ever been this happy before. When you said nothing else like this exists, you were so right because I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW.

Katie , WV

Joining PBT was one of the best decisions I could have made. The community was amazingly supportive! So much love, so many with shared experiences. It is POWERFUL knowing you are not alone. I noticed results within a couple of weeks.

Zuzu Monro , Canada

Thanks for your faith in me and the tough love when it was necessary... Thanks so much for creating this outlet... I can’t imagine where I would be without it.

Mona , Member

PBT and the support found within has saved me. It has shown me the light and taught me the tools I need to succeed and heal. This community offers something that cannot be found elsewhere.


I’m so very grateful for you Debi. You’ve created a sanctity for me and for many others. This world needs more people like you. You are a light and a beacon for love, calm, and healing. Thank you for being you and for sharing your gifts with us all. My heart is full ❤️


If you have experienced betrayal of any kind, take this course from Betrayal to Breakthrough. Debi walks hand in hand with you through the 5 Stages of healing and you will come through stronger, more courageous and whole hearted.


I know I would not be in the place I am right now without having found you and your program!!! Thank you for everything- your energy, passion, love and inspiration. You have changed my world for the better and that has meant so much to me!!

Sheri P

I went from feeling on the edge and hopeless, to seeing a future I never could have imagined before the betrayal. I have become an entirely new person who is competent in ways I never imagined.

Holly Hirshberg

Finding the PBT Institute was a lifesaver for me. The PBT Institute helped me find my way to a happier, healthier me and a new relationship with my husband. Don’t live another day being miserable - do this for you! The ripple effect on those you love will be incredible.

Debbie K

I didn’t know where to turn and I know God led me to you, Debi. You have made a huge difference in my life, in the hardest time of my life, and I thank you so very much!

Sharon B.

When I came into this community, I was a mess. I learned so much and was inspired to grow. I am really a different person now.


I'm finally starting to feel like myself again. PBT didn't just help me heal from betrayal, it saved my life.


The PBT Institute gave me a place to be heard and validated. I was assured the things I felt were real and true. I was given a way of thinking, a path forward, that led me toward healing. What I was looking for, that I did not get with any therapy, was a step by step way forward. The PBT community was the ONLY place where you could follow a path.


This is a priceless investment in yourself. I’ve done more in the program in 2 weeks than in 3 years of therapy and marriage counseling, tons of counseling seminars, tons of money-nothing has helped until this community.


I am so grateful!

I am delighted to report that I am feeling so much better, stronger, a new version of me, a new life and a hopeful, empowered future ahead. For many sustained months now. I look back on my years with PBT and learned and 'leaned in' so much from the coaches and members.

I am so grateful for the wisdom, support and roadmap that Dr. Debi created to help us all. Again, I am so grateful!


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Everyone must go through 5 Stages to fully heal from a betrayal. Find out what stage you’re in.

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