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PBT Institute
MEMBERSHIP

Heal the Hurt So You Can Trust Again & Live The Life You Deserve

Discover the proven research-based approach to healing that's helped thousands of people around the world go from betrayal to breakthrough.
If they can do it, you can too.

Does any of this sound like you?

  • You feel like you’ve been punched in the gut. Your life as you’ve known it has totally shattered. The person you loved and trusted the most just pulled the rug out from underneath you.
  • You're overwhelmed. You don’t know what to do or who to reach out to. You’re not sure who to trust.
  • You’re exhausted and can barely scrape yourself off the floor but you still have your kids, work and other obligations to take care of. It takes everything you’ve got to just make it through another day.
  • You feel rejected and abandoned. You’re afraid - how are you going to survive this on your own? Especially when you don’t trust yourself anymore.
  • You’re ashamed of what’s happened and are struggling in silence.
  • You’ve been numbing out with food, alcohol, work, TV, etc. to cope with the betrayal. (Numbing out is the best way to keep yourself stuck in survival mode.)
  • You’re struggling with physical, mental, and emotional issues such as anxiety, depression, rage, brain fog, fatigue, insomnia, gut issues, weight changes and other stress-related symptoms.
  • Your confidence has plummeted and it’s causing problems for you at work and home.

If so, I’m so glad you’re here. I want to let you know,
you’re not crazy, you’re not alone, and you can heal from all of this.

Imagine instead...

  • You’ve healed the hurt. You now feel a sense of peace and calm.
  • You're clear on your next steps and you have support to take them.
  • You have the energy to do what’s most important to you each day. And eventually, you have the energy it takes to create your new body, business, relationship, and life.
  • You feel confident and secure. You have the tools you need to thrive and most importantly, you’ve regained trust in yourself and your judgment.
  • You realize the betrayal wasn’t about you, you’re not crazy, you’re not alone and you can heal from it. You’re relieved to be getting the right type of support.
  • Your healing has catapulted now that you’re no longer numbing out.
  • You’ve healed from all the stress-related symptoms and illnesses. You’re healthier, stronger, wiser and better, all for having moved through and beyond the betrayal.
  • Your confidence has soared and you’re experiencing new exciting opportunities in all areas of your life.

If this feels impossible for you right now, I’m here to tell you… it’s not.

Hi. I’m Dr. Debi. 

I’m the Founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute. Over the last 30 years I’ve supported thousands of people to heal physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

In everything I’ve seen and in all the people I’ve worked with, I’ve come to believe that betrayal is one of the most painful experiences we can ever have. How do I know? I’ve been there.

It was my own betrayals, first from my family and then from my husband, that shattered my heart, trust and life as I’d known it.

It didn’t make any sense. These were the people I loved and trusted. How could they hurt me like that? If I couldn’t count on or feel safe with the people I trusted the most, who could I trust? How would I navigate through this crisis while running my business, being there for my 4 kids, clients and 6 dogs, too? How could I make sense out of this and how would I ever be able to heal my mind, body and heart?

My desperation to understand betrayal led me to get a PhD in Transpersonal Psychology (the psychology of transformation and human potential). While there I did a groundbreaking study that led to the creation of a research-based, proven and predictable way to fully heal. The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute was born.

I applied everything I learned to my own life. As I saw how it worked and contributed to my healing and transformation, I brought it into my work with clients, too. I was thrilled to see how this method was working with people who had tried everything before coming to me.

At the time, there was no program like this that addressed all areas of healing: mind, body, spirit, that are impacted by betrayal, and that delivered the specific kinds of support required to heal. 

That’s why I created The PBT MEMBERSHIP

Dr. Debi has been featured on:

PBT MEMBERSHIP

Here’s your opportunity to go from breakdown to breakthrough with everything you need from those who’ve been there, who get it and who are dedicated to helping you heal.

In this ongoing, monthly membership, I’ve brought together the key components required to heal:

Coaching
Classes
Community

Connection
Content
Curated Experts

OVERVIEW OF WHAT’S INCLUDED
IN THE PBT MEMBERSHIP:

LIVE DAILY CLASSES WITH CERTIFIED PBT CoachES AND PractitionerS 


  • Gain insight, clarity and understanding of your unique situation through these rich daily classes in areas such as: Trauma, Narcissism, Self-Betrayal, Sex & Porn Addiction, Reconciliation, Chronic Pain Management, Health & Fitness Training, IntraPersonal Relationships, Drug & Alcohol Addictions and so many more.
  • Delivered LIVE and all replays available in your library.

WEEKLY Q&A with DR. DEBI

  • Members get to benefit from Dr. Debi’s 30 years of experience during these rich and dynamic Q&A Calls.
  • Depending on your level of Membership, you’ll have access to the LIVE calls (where you get to ask your biggest questions) or listen to the recordings anytime.

masterClasses WITH SPECIAL EXPERTS


  • Top leaders in their field are brought in to share their insight and expertise with our Members in these curated Masterclasses held at least once per month. 
  • Recent topics: Burnout, Hormones, Trauma, Breathwork, Soul Contracts, Emotional Eating, Forgiveness, Energy Healing, Intuition, Shadow-Work, Boundaries, Thriving As An Empath and/or Highly Sensitive Person, and Body-Mind-Connection

2 LEVELS OF MEMBERSHIP

STANDARD

$ 97

/mo

Ongoing Support
and Step by Step
Transformation

  • Full Access to Dr. Debi's Proven Step-by-Step Research Based Programs Taking You From Betrayal to Breakthrough
  • Personalized Welcoming Process to Create Your Perfect Experience
  • Recordings of Masterclasses with Curated Experts
  • Transformation Tracker
  • Private Safe Community
  • Live group classes From the Comfort of Your Own Home
  • Recordings of Weekly "Coffee Chats" with Dr. Debi
  • Resource Directory
  • Monthly Member Spotlight/Charity Component
  • Ability to work with Certified Coaches/Practitioners on an a-la-carte basis
UPGRADED

Best Value

$ 297

/mo

Increase your momentum with private Coaching with Certified PBT Coaches/Practitioners

  • Full Access to Dr. Debi's proven Step-by-Step Research Based Programs Taking You From Betrayal to Breakthrough
  • Personalized Welcoming Process to Create Your Perfect Experience
  • Participate LIVE and ask questions during Masterclasses with Curated Experts
  • Transformation Tracker
  • Private Safe Community
  • Live group classes From the Comfort of Your Own Home
  • Participate LIVE and ask questions during weekly open "Coffee Chats" with Dr. Debi
  • Resource Directory
  • Monthly Member Spotlight/Charity Component
  • Private One-on-One Sessions with any one of our many Certified PBT Coaches and Practitioners each month who specialize in a variety of topics and modalities
  • And more!
STANDARD

Save $194

$ 970

/year

Ongoing Support
and Step by Step
Transformation

  • Full Access to Dr. Debi's Proven Step-by-Step Research Based Programs Taking You From Betrayal to Breakthrough
  • Personalized Welcoming Process to Create Your Perfect Experience
  • Recordings of Masterclasses with Curated Experts
  • Transformation Tracker
  • Private Safe Community
  • Live group classes From the Comfort of Your Own Home
  • Recordings of Weekly "Coffee Chats" with Dr. Debi
  • Resource Directory
  • Monthly Member Spotlight/Charity Component
  • Ability to work with Certified Coaches/Practitioners on an a-la-carte basis
UPGRADED

Save $594

$ 2970

/year

Increase your momentum with private Coaching with Certified PBT Coaches/Practitioners

  • Full Access to Dr. Debi's proven Step-by-Step Research Based Programs Taking You From Betrayal to Breakthrough
  • Personalized Welcoming Process to Create Your Perfect Experience
  • Participate LIVE and ask questions during Masterclasses with Curated Experts
  • Transformation Tracker
  • Private Safe Community
  • Live group classes From the Comfort of Your Own Home
  • Participate LIVE and ask questions during weekly open "Coffee Chats" with Dr. Debi
  • Resource Directory
  • Monthly Member Spotlight/Charity Component
  • Private One-on-One Sessions with any one of our many Certified PBT Coaches and Practitioners each month who specialize in a variety of topics and modalities
  • And more!

ALSO INCLUDED:
FOUNDATIONAL PBT SIGNATURE PROGRAMS
PRIVATE AND SECURE FORUMS
TRANSFORMATION TRACKER

  • These two self-paced programs provide you with a solid foundation to move through the 5 stages from betrayal to breakthrough.
  • Each module contains video, audio, experiential activities and downloadable worksheets.
  • New self-paced program:  Moving Past Betrayal! This is a gently moving supplemental course to use in addition to all of the other resources available to you.
  • The newest addition to our programs:  The self Care System! Self-Care Strategies That Will Transform Your Life This Year.

PRIVATE & SECURE COMMUNITY FORUMS

  • Connect with a like-minded community all dedicated to supporting, uplifting and inspiring each other. 
  • End the isolation as you have access to community 24/7 where you can ask questions, get input, share celebrations and so much more.

TRANSFORMATION TRACKER

  • Track and measure your progress so you see how you’re moving through the 5 Stages.
  • The Tracker also serves to show you how far you’ve come on your healing journey which inspires you to keep going.

Here’s What Happens When You Sign Up

Once you sign up three important things happen:

1. Welcome Call

You’ll schedule a Welcome Call with our Client Care Specialist, Ling. During this private call Ling walks you through all the resources available in the Membership, suggests specific coaches and classes for you based on where you’re at, buddy you up with another Member if you’d like to have that personal connection and answer any questions you have about getting started.

2. Message from Dr. Debi

You’ll receive a personalized Welcome video from Dr. Debi.

3. Gain Access

You’ll get immediate access to the Signature Programs and Community and all else included in your Membership Level.


We’ve got you!

What members are saying:

NO ONE has ever articulated betrayal the way you have!
"NO ONE has ever articulated betrayal the way you have! I am so happy to have found your program to help me improve the quality of life!”  Ellen, NY


I already have more energy and I feel better all around.
"After just two classes with Debi I already have more energy and I feel better all around. Debi makes you realize how easy it is to make simple changes that enhance the quality of your life in all areas.”  Kerri, NY


Debi has guided me towards believing in myself again.
"Debi has guided me towards believing in myself again and with her support she has motivated me to resolve inner conflict so that I can find happiness and clarity. Debi’s kind nature and upbeat personality allow me to feel comfortable and trusting that she will help me become the person that I want to be and to live the life I desire.”  Lynn, NY


Debi totally rekindled my desire to get back to work on me.
"Debi totally rekindled my desire to get back to work on me. In a very gentle, kind and humorous way, Debi helped me to remember to take care of myself. She also has some really sound advice on problems that we face with our bodies that doctors don’t always tell you about.”  Patricia, CO


Personal Note From Dr. Debi

You’ve been through the worst already. You can’t change it and you can’t undo it.

But you can control what you do with it.

You deserve to heal. You deserve to take your power back. You deserve to look, feel and live better. 



This experience of betrayal doesn’t have to define you anymore. You’re meant for so much more.

With the support of the PBT Membership you’re able to feel safe again, trust again and love again. You’re also able to create a stronger, wiser version of you that wouldn’t have been able to show up now had you not gone through what you have.

Whether the experience is new or happened decades ago…

Whether you’ve been numbing yourself, attempting to outrun the betrayal for decades and have resigned yourself to thinking this is as good as it gets, or you know something more is possible yet haven’t known how to get there on your own…

I’m here to tell you SO MUCH MORE is available to you. You do not have to stay in struggle or survival mode on your own anymore. Let me show you the proven path from betrayal to breakthrough. When you move through the painful experience, you create something so much better.

Let’s get you feeling better!

To your transformation,
Dr. Debi

What Experts Are Saying:

"Debi Silber has the ability to blend knowledge, experience, enthusiasm and compassion to help people create the body, lifestyle and life they crave.”

Jack Canfield

Co-Author of the Bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul Series and The Success

“Debi Silber offers a clear and effective approach to moving forward after an experience with betrayal.”

Marci Shimoff

#1 New York Times best-selling author of Happy for No Reason and featured teacher in The Secret

"Debi shows you how to develop a lifestyle full of health, energy and vitality that you may have never experienced before!"

Brian Tracy

Author of 55 books in 38 languages

"Betrayal is intensely painful but Debi reveals the pain remedy you need to heal, regroup, and move forward with strength and love.


Dr Joe Vitale

International Best-Selling Author of Zero Limits and The Miracle

“After an experience with betrayal, it can be especially challenging to get unstuck and have the motivation we need to rebuild our health and our lives. Debi’s research-based protocol, combined with her own story and those she’s helped, teaches us how to trust again.”

Mary Morrissey

Mary Morrissey

International speaker and bestselling author

"Debi Silber has created a simple system to improve your body, mind, image and lifestyle. More companies and individuals need to 'get their mojo back' and Debi can help!"

Marshall Goldsmith

 New York Times and million-copy bestselling author of MOJO and What Got You Here Won't Get You There

"You are in good hands."

Wm Paul Young

Author of the book and movie, The Shack

“Debi Silber has given us a step-by-step approach in order to use the painful experience of betrayal as a launchpad for transformation.”

Dr. Marilyn Schlitz

PhD chair, Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, Sofia University

"If you want to have a balanced, successful life professionally or personally you’ve got to work with my friend Debi and here’s why. She gives you how to balance everything, She teaches you how to have a healthy body, healthy mind, healthy image and healthy lifestyle. Call Debi today, coach with her, listen to her, let her show you how to improve your personal and professional life!"

James Malinchak

Featured on the ABC TV Show, “Secret Millionaire”, Coauthor of the Top-Selling Chicken Soup for the College Soul

“While we may choose to be more guarded and protective in response to broken trust, it disconnects us from our source, ourselves, and others. Debi shows us how to trust again so we can reconnect and become who we’re fully meant to be.”



Dr. Sue Morter

Author of The Energy Codes

What members are saying:

Debi is the real deal!
"Hit hard by divorce and challenging life circumstances, I called Debi when I was reeling from emotional entanglements, increasing dependency on cigarettes, racking myself with guilt about junk food, feeling like a fraud and a failure. I no longer wanted my victim story to continue and knew I was capable of many great things but low-self esteem and overwhelm had gotten the better of me. Debi cut through my bull with such precision in our first session that I cut out the cigarettes that very day.

“Since then, she’s helped me unravel emotional spirals with such efficiency that I’ve been able to start working on the driving force within me – to create a life I love, meaning, and abundance, making centered-based decisions from a place of self-love and purpose. With Debi’s expert help and encouragement, I’m finding a fun and creative way to get my own wellness transformation story out to the world, something that has eluded me for a decade. If you want to course correct your life in a way that gives you meaning and fulfillment – don’t be afraid just because of where you’re presently at.” Sondra, CA


Thank you, Debi! This is such an enlightening & healing course!
Before I began this course, healing was not possible. I offer my sincerest appreciate & gratitude for what you do & how you do it. You've changed my life.” Pat, PA


Dr. Debi’s program is the best one I have ever taken.
Even though I have a lot of healing. I look at her program as a lifeline to keep me from drowning.” Briana, CA


I don't know if I've ever been this happy before. I'm so grateful for PBT-so blessed.
I KNOW I'll get there and that it's just a work in progress! I'm almost crying as I'm writing this to you right now. Thank you so much again for PBT!!! When you said nothing else like this exists, you were so right because I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW. You're seriously such an angel!” Katie, WV


Debi helped me save me from myself and helped me build a life that I always dreamt of.
"I thank God every day for putting a woman like Debi Silber into my life. I was urged to seek her help when I was at my lowest point. She opened my eyes to the path I was going down and where I would end up if I never took charge of my life. She made me realize that the fear of the unknown and being comfortable in my less than ideal situation was what was holding me back. If I wanted to see my life change, I was the only person who could make that happen. Allison, NY


Debi helped me take charge.
This amazing woman listened to me, gave me words of encouragement, strategies on how to cope and deal with my emotions and anxiety, and most importantly, held me accountable. She was always there for me, and I know she always will be. Debi gave me the strength to grow as a woman and realize my worth. I will forever be grateful to her for giving me so much and for giving me my life back!” Allison, NY

FAQs

When does my membership start?

Once you join, you’ll immediately receive your welcome information assessment which helps us create your personalized approach for best results. As soon as you’ve completed that, we walk you through the next steps so you’re not overwhelmed and know exactly what to do.

How much is it?

Standard Membership: $97/month (cancel at any time) (click here to get started)

How much support will I get?

You’ll receive lots of support and it also depends on which membership you choose. Members receive support from our Client Care Specialist and “PBT Support Host Mama” Tania where after an onboarding process you’re also matched with a “buddy” (totally up to you if you want to take advantage of this and we do it so you avoid that uncomfortable, new person feeling :)) , then there’s lots of support within the community. Want to remain anonymous? That’s ok too. Upgraded members also receive additional support from their sessions with a certified PBT Coach or Practitioner, private sessions with Dr. Debi, and monthly group calls with Dr. Debi.

Will I get 1:1 time with Dr. Debi?

Regardless of your level of membership, everyone gets a personalized welcome video! Standard members have access to replays of Dr. Debi’s “coffee chats.” Upgraded members can participate live and ask Dr. Debi questions during live coffee chats. Platinum members receive a private session each month and a semi-private Platinum member only group session held by Dr. Debi. If you’ve paid for a full year of either Upgraded or Platinum levels of membership, you also receive an private call with Dr. Debi.

How does the membership work?

The cost of either $97 per month (Standard membership) or $297 per month (Upgraded membership) is automatically charged to your card. You’ll be able to login, access course materials, attend classes and as an Upgraded member, schedule with Certified Coaches or Practitioners and Dr. Debi immediately after your onboarding process begins.

Is there a guarantee?

Yep. We know this process works-remember, Dr. Debi did the study that made the discoveries on what helps us heal from betrayal and what holds us back so what she learned is exactly what’s included in your membership. We also know that it takes the right combination of Coaching, Classes, Community, Connection, Content and Curated Experts. You need to put in the time and effort and you need to be willing to move forward (believe it or not, willingness has SO much to do with it.) Having said that, if you do a combination of all of those things and don’t want to work with Dr. Debi and the team or community any longer, you can cancel and leave the membership community at any time.

How do I choose which membership is for me?

  • Standard is for you if you need support, community and a roadmap to heal.
  • Upgraded is for you if you want all of what’s included in Standard PLUS accountability with coaches, including live support from Dr. Debi and the guest experts. This is a great way to increase your momentum.
  • Platinum is for you if you’re ready for transformation in all areas of your life and you’d like high level 1:1 access to Dr. Debi and our PBT Coaches.

How long is the membership?

That depends on you. Some members are with us for a few months and others find the support and other benefits so valuable, they want to stay on much longer. Some have gotten so much value and have healed so well they want to pursue certification. So, it’s really up to you but of course, we hope you stay for as long as you feel you need to.

What is it like inside?

Imagine a community where you can interact with other members (who understand what you’re healing from because they’re healing from it too), where you can take a longer or shorter program with videos, audios and experiential activities, register for group classes, attend masterclasses with specially curated experts in a variety of different specialties, schedule time with coaches/practitioners and special group "coffee chats" with Dr. Debi (along with additional group calls with an upgraded membership). Imagine a place that offers everything you need to help you heal from betrayal with all of the support you need from people who get it, all in one place. Yep, it’s pretty special in there.

What type of Curated Experts are you bringing in?

Specialists in the areas of health, spirituality, divorce/mediation, creativity...basically experts who have a specialty that can help you physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically or spiritually.

How do the group calls work?

All groups meet via zoom which is free. Once you register for a class, you’ll receive an email with the link to log in or call into. Be sure to use and check the email you joined the membership with so you’re sure to get the login information. You can join the calls via video or phone.

What kind of results will I have?

That’s kind of like going to the gym and asking that same question. The results depend on you. We know how well the coursework, community, support and more all work to ensure results...but you need to do the work to see for yourself.

What members are saying:

I am about to finish the program and cannot believe the difference that it has made.
Between the course and the classes, taking the Trust Again Challenge and reading the Trust Again book it feels like I have been in university for a full degree program. Although I would never wish a betrayal like mine on anyone, and can't believe that this has happened to me, the amount that I have learned about myself, my relationships, what I want and deserve, and that I will be okay no matter what happens to me is truly a treasure.” - Peter, CA


I feel that this program has been the answer I’ve been searching for.
After years of reading, studying, listening to all sorts of opinions on each of the topics you brought me through these few weeks, I finally have the direction to uncover the person I am meant to be! My sincere thanks.” Marie, NY


Debi is an intuitive laser focused coach committed to helping you have whatever it is you want.
She has huge a wealth of information at her fingertips to get you through whatever you need to achieve results-body, mind and spirit. I am grateful for Debi for creating this class and to me for saying YES to it.” Ruth, NY


I owe Debi a big thank you.
I went through an extremely difficult situation with my husband. After a year of counseling with no help I was tired of feeling weighed down, I knew I needed something more to help me become the best me and mother for my kids, and that’s when I found Debi. From our first session I left feeling the best I have felt in months. Debi has taught me how to change my thought process from negative to positive and go after my goals without letting my self-doubt getting in the way from succeeding. Debi has had a tremendous impact on my life, on some of the tough days I still hear her words and they still guide me to become the Ultimate me! I can’t thank you enough, I truly don’t know where I would be had I not met you.” Jennifer, NY


WOW, this is so powerful and the most comprehensive explanation of the transformation process I've heard at age 78.
I'm excited and hopeful after many programs, years of therapy and even working as a psychotherapist to gain freedom to embrace and hold onto ME. Thank you for doing your work and going on to inspire others. You are deeply appreciated.” Lynnet, VA


Wow! This was awesome. So grateful for the learning and growth.
You were so right, Debi. As I am going through this program, the people who used to push my buttons and make me act in unhealthy ways no longer do. There is nothing in me for them to hang their stuff on so they just leave me alone. I laugh so much these days. I feel the same joy I remember feeling as a child just being alive. Thank you.” Emma, TX


I just listened to the first class. It was stunning in its depth and clarity.
This is really a new field and I am so glad I have the tools to begin to heal from the catastrophic betrayal I experienced. I believe I am in stage three and trying to make decisions about my future based on the reality of now. Such truly good information.” Cindy, CA


Debi Silber is an inspiration!
Her passion for helping others see their truth as she takes them through their darkness into the light, is truly a gift that makes her stand out from all the others. She does it with love and compassion making everyone she meets feel just as important as next. I am truly blessed to have Debi Silber in my life.” Barbara, NY

About Dr. Debi Silber

Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of the #1 bestselling book: The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis and her newest book: Trust Again: Overcoming Betrayal and Regaining Health, Confidence and Happiness. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she’s an award winning speaker, podcast host, coach and author dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence and happiness they want most.

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