The Only Research-Based System to fully Heal From Betrayal
If you’re exhausted from the pain, tired of pretending you’re okay, and ready to feel like yourself again…Reclaim is your proven path forward.
Betrayal can break you—but it doesn’t have to define you.
Whether it was a partner, a friend, a family member, or even yourself—you’re carrying the weight of it everywhere. In your body. In your relationships. In your thoughts.
You may be stuck in a cycle of anxiety, mistrust, exhaustion, anger… and still wondering, “Why can’t I just move on?”
That’s where Reclaim comes in.
Backed by research and rooted in our 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough®, Reclaim helps you:
- Finally sleep deeply—no more restless nights replaying what happened
- Put an end to the obsessive spirals and feel steady, grounded, and in control
- Rebuild fierce self-trust and know exactly where to draw the line in every relationship
- Release the resentment, grief, and shame that have been silently draining your joy
- Wake up with energy and clarity, excited about your future again
- Open your heart to trust again—without ever abandoning yourself again
Here’s why Reclaim works:
- Based on original PhD research on healing from betrayal
- Clinically proven to move you through the 5 Stages of Post Betrayal Transformation®
- Addresses the mental, emotional, physical, and identity-level impacts of betrayal
- Includes access to Certified PBT® Coaches who’ve lived it and transformed through it (Included in Momentum & Transform)
"Even though I have a lot of healing. I look at her program as a lifeline to keep me from drowning.”
- Briana
This Isn’t Just Healing—It’s an Upgrade.
Reclaim doesn’t just help you heal from betrayal—it helps you become
someone stronger, wiser, and more aligned than before.
Stage 1 - Set the Foundation
Stabilize your nervous system, get out of the fog, and reconnect with your inner compass.
Stage 2 - Release the Trauma Loop
Understand what betrayal did to your brain, body, and beliefs & how to start reversing the damage.
Stage 3 - Rebuild the Self
Identify and replace the identity you created through pain with one rooted in truth, strength, and possibility.
Stage 4 - Expand Your Life
Now that you're clear, it's time to consciously build new standards in relationships, work, and wellbeing.
Stage 5 - Transformation
You’re no longer reacting to the betrayal. You're leading your life from a place of wholeness, purpose, and self-trust.
FAQs
As soon as you sign up, you have access to everything included in Reclaim - programs, coaching, community, and more.
Yes! Betrayal isn't specific to gender. We work with men and women to heal from their betrayals and transform their lives.
Within Reclaim Momentum, you get 1:1 coaching from any of our PBT coaches, regular support from Dr. Debi through group Coffee Chats where you can bring your questions directly to her, and you have unlimited access to our Client Care specialist to help you navigate the site and programs. With Transform, you get all that AND 1:1 coaching from Dr. Debi and exclusive Transform group coaching.
We take the guesswork out of healing. We’ve studied over 85,000 people to decode the betrayal healing process—and we’ll walk you through it step by step.
Yes! You can extend your any program if you need more time after the initial 3 months. For now, dive fully in and see all that can happen in 90 days!
In Reclaim Momentum, you do not get direct 1:1 access to Dr. Debi. However, you do have the ability to speak with her and bring any questions you may have to the group Coffee Chats.
In Transform, you get 1:1 coaching with Dr. Debi and exclusive Transform group coaching with her as well! If you're looking for direct support from Dr. Debi, this is for you!
People Just Like You Have Healed with Reclaim
"Before Reclaim, I felt broken and shut down. I was skeptical, but now? I feel like the most honest, clear, and empowered version of myself I’ve ever been."
Sarah L.
"I used betrayal to transform every part of my life. This program gave me the tools, the map, and the support I didn’t even know I needed."
Jason R.
You’ve already survived the hardest part. Now it’s time to heal from your betrayal and Reclaim your life.