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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 102: The Issues are in the Tissues - Where Unhealed Betrayal Lives w/ Dr. Michelle Eggenberger

102: The Issues are in the Tissues – Where Unhealed Betrayal Lives w/ Dr. Michelle Eggenberger

Dr. Michelle Eggenberger is an author, holistic stress and anxiety coach, doctor of oriental medicine, licensed acupuncturist, health coach and certified yoga teacher, just to name a few. After recovering from her own romantic betrayal and a string of health issues, Dr. Michelle realized that it was within her power to find a better way to live. 

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Through this journey of self-discovery, Dr. Michelle realized the importance of prioritizing self-love and self-worth and has since been on a mission to share her message with the world. Living proof that you can manifest the things you want in life if you work to keep the mind, body, and spirit healthy, Dr. Michelle is here to help you allow the Universe to guide you to where you need to be. 

You have the choice to choose yourself and give yourself the happy life that you deserve. Making the decision to prioritize both your mental and physical health while becoming aware of how your thoughts affect you is key to becoming the architect of your own destiny. 

Are you ready to allow Dr. Michelle to teach you how to harness the power of your body through yoga, awareness and the mind-heart connection so that you can find joy after your betrayal? Share your self-love and self-compassion tips with us in the comments below. 

In This Episode

  • Explore the connection between the mind, spirit, and body when finding self-love
  • Learn how your emotions are tied to your digestive system and overthinking your reality
  • How acupuncture can help you circulate and move your emotions through your body
  • Discover how your daily thoughts can manifest into physical emotions and reactions 
  • The importance of practicing yoga and nurturing the mind-heart connection

Quotes

“One of the reasons why when we have a romantic betrayal it is so powerful in our own self-worth and all that is because of the vulnerability factor.” (6:05)

“Slowly I started finding the strength to understand my self-worth and my self-love and what I needed to do to step out of that relationship, that that relationship was no longer fit for me.” (10:23)

“We are so perfectly done that our body, when we haven’t been taking care of our mind and our emotions, our body will tell us.” (17:31)

“One of the things that happens when you start doing yoga as a real practice, you start going into the mind-heart connection. And that is where the real magic happens, for everything. That is where the real transformation and real healing happens.” (20:42)

“It’s the thoughts that we create that will create the feelings that we experience, that will create the actions and the reality that we see.” (22:48)

Links

The Energetics of Joy by Dr. Michelle Eggenberger

The Energetics of Joy Website

The Dharma Clinic Website

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 098: Betrayed by the Medical Community w/ Dr. Tom Moorcroft

098: Betrayed by the Medical Community w/ Dr. Tom Moorcroft

Have you ever felt dismissed or ignored in the doctor’s office? This can be a form of medical betrayal and can leave many people feeling confused and without answers. Dr. Tom Moorcroft realized the deep connection between mental and emotional symptoms and hidden infections such as Lyme disease and mold and has set out to bring the news to patients and doctors alike to help provide those suffering from the trusting care they deserve. 

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It may surprise you that everything from your brain to your heart and your gut are connected. When you experience trauma, betrayal or are infected with a toxin that impacts your immune or digestive system, it can wreak havoc on your body and cause mood changes, sleep disruptions and a whole host of other mental, emotional and physical issues. In this episode Dr. Tom is explaining the science behind physical and behavioral changes due to an illness or infection, the difference between Pandas, Pans, and Polyvagal Theory, and what symptoms to be looking out for.

Get ready to learn something on this episode as we dive into how your doctor’s dismissal to the psychologist’s office could be misplaced, understand how your gut is related to all systems of your body, and explore how to reconnect with your head and heart by healing the disease you may not even know you have. 

Just because your doctor may not understand the complexity of your symptoms, it doesn’t mean that they do not exist. Once you are able to understand how the gut, heart, and mind are all connected, you can work to heal yourself from the inside out and give yourself permission to do the things you love again. Has a steal infection or illness impacted you or the ones you love? Share what steps you are taking to find a solution in the comments below. 

In This Episode

  • Different therapeutic approaches to become grounded in who you are
  • How to step away from including your disease as part of your identity 
  • Understanding the connection between your gut, anxiety, and memories
  • Helping to heal your emotions, brain, and heart by first healing your gut 
  • Altering the biochemical changes in your brain after experiencing a betrayal 

Quotes

“A lot of people feel like they have been betrayed by the system. And it’s not so much the system doing the wrong thing on purpose, it’s often that their symptoms are so complex that they don’t understand it.” (2:38)

“I’m not saying don’t do therapy, don’t do the medicines, but also once you do those things that are medically appropriate, also continue to look for the underlying cause.” (8:39)

“If we change what is going on in the gut, it changes our ability to create new memories, retrieve old memories, and also to deal with fear properly.” (17:27)

“Just because someone else is using different words and reacting to an experience different than I am, it doesn’t mean that I am right and they are wrong or vice versa.” (22:53)

“As you open your heart and experience some more joy, your gut will open up.” (27:39)

Links

Dr. Tom Moorcroft Origins of Health Website

Empowered by Lyme Facebook Group

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 093: Betrayal by One Thousand Cuts w/ Rachell Kitchen

093: Betrayal by One Thousand Cuts w/ Rachell Kitchen

After being betrayed by what felt like 1,000 cuts, Rachell Kitchen was able to pick herself up and continue fighting. A survivor of extreme violence, divorce, drastic family health issues and even the murder of her father, Rachell is here to share her personal experience in the hopes of empowering you to move your life from chaos to clarity. 

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Now a speaker, author, life and transition coach as well as the CEO of Level Up 4 Life Coaching, Rachell knows a thing or two about perseverance and the ability to bounce back. Today Rachell is an open book explaining how her series of betrayals showed her the importance of asking for help and avoiding destructive thoughts. 

Betrayals or large life transitions can often feel like too much to handle, and it is only by embracing some of the techniques Rachell learned at rock bottom that you can understand the cycle of change and dedicate yourself to showing up in that process. 

A beautiful example of healing past post betrayal syndrome and an advocate for never allowing yourself to be victimized, Rachell is here to help you flip that switch and start healing from your traumas. Are you ready to embrace a new recipe for healing and fight your way through the dark side? Share what you loved most about Rachells story in the comments below. 

In This Episode

  • Learn how trauma can mess up your hormones and wreak physical and emotional havoc
  • Why you should get comfortable asking for help and knowing your worth
  • Signs that you are on the right healing path by finding joy amidst the chaos
  • Understanding the ripple effect of betrayal and how to focus on the positive lessons
  • Explore the forgiveness process while honoring the power of self-love

Quotes

“It just really did feel like a series of betrayals by a thousand cuts, it was coming at me from every angle, and I really just felt victimized.” (3:00)

“You may not like what is happening right now at this moment, but look how rich your life is, look how abundant you do have it.” (12:02)

“You can decide how you like to show up for the day, in that situation, versus acting out and acting in a way that would not honor your values and how you would like to show up.” (16:58)

“My gift that God put me here to do is to share my capacity to love. And how do I do that? By what I do best, helping other women find theirs.” (20:59)

“You do not have to be a victim to your circumstances, you do not have to undervalue the power that you have within, and give the power to the obstacle.” (27:48)

Links

Level Up 4 Life Website

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090: What Your Betrayal is Doing to Your Gut w/ Dr. Marisol Teijeiro

Have you ever considered that your digestive issues could be linked to an unhealed trauma or lack of trust? Dr. Marisol Teijeiro, aka The Queen of the Thrones, is the world leader in passion and gut health and has discovered the hierarchy on how to get healthy. Today Dr. Marisol is here to explain how your past betrayals could be showing up as a gut issue and what you can do to literally let go of your shit.

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The thing is, our digestion isn’t just about how we digest our foods. Your digestive system is a representation of how you are digesting your life and can be a clear indicator that you are holding onto something that you need to address.

If you are struggling with any kind of digestive issue, want to understand the emotional component of digestive disorders or want to explore the ultra-sensitive gut-brain connection, you are going to love this episode. With Dr. Marisol’s expertise, you can understand how your stools can show how stressed you are, learn how your body works when responding to trauma and use your betrayal as a way to heal your body and help you find your purpose in this world. 

Are you ready to start listening to your gut and transition from shit-show to owning your throne? Share your digestive journey with us in the comment below. 

In This Episode

  • Learn how your digestive issues can be linked to an unhealed betrayal
  • Explore which digestive disorders can be linked to different types of trauma
  • Why you need to become aware of what your stool is telling you
  • Specific things that you can do to take back control of your throne
  • Understanding the role of gratitude and meditation in digestive healing

Quotes

“Any kind of stressor, emotional or physical, will completely run down the digestive system.” (4:06)

“Our digestion isn’t just about digesting food… it’s a manifestation of how we are digesting our lives.” (5:38)

“If you don’t feel good from a mental, emotional, spiritual level, the place that it is going to manifest for your wakeup call is going to be in your body, bottom line.” (15:49)

“We are each given a gift, and our journeys are part of that gift. And we really need to embrace it and be in the present and realize that what has happened to us, those traumas, are really gifts for us to evolve and it is our mission in this world and it will show us our purpose.” (18:37)

Links

Legends Of The Throne Free Gift

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Dr. Marisol Website

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 085: From Victim to Victor w/ Sheila Sutherland

085: From Victim to Victor w/ Sheila Sutherland

Sheila Sutherland woke up one day to find that her brain and body had betrayed her, unable to form full sentences and left with pain everywhere except her face and hair. The medical community had a lack of answers and an overindulgence of antibiotics which lead Sheila to venture out on her own and find healing on her own terms.

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With over 20 years of experience in the science and education fields, Shiela used her knowledge and the power of holistic medicine to heal her myalgic encephalomyelitis and find peace in the betrayal of her body. 

By making meaning out of your trauma and finding what works best for your own healing journey, Sheila is proof of the power of managing your behavior and responses to increase success in both your personal and professional lives. Through meditation, gut healing, kickboxing, nature and more, Sheila is here to provide tangible ways to help you live your life with the utmost happiness. 

If you are looking for tools on how to overcome a bodily betrayal or master this thing that we call life, Sheila is the guru you need to help you pay attention to your body and your mind to take back control of your body and your life. 

Have you ever dealt with a bodily betrayal? Share your story with us in the comments below. 

In This Episode

  • Exploring the individual experience of PTSD and how it affects each person individually
  • Tools to help manage your stress and anger through healthy emotional outlets
  • The power of meditation when healing chronic pain and emotional trauma
  • Ways that you can heal your gut and microbiome from the inside out 
  • How to reconnect with your body through meditation, nature, and self-care

Quotes

“As great as it was that they could put a name on it, the problem was that because it was so rarely diagnosed and not really studied, there was no medical protocol.” (7:34)

“I had a rather strong conversation with my doctor and said, ‘I need to figure this out on my own’. Because unfortunately the traditional medical community doesn’t really have anything for me for this, and I need to try something else because this isn’t working.” (9:29)

“Meditation, like anything, is a practice. You have to do it on a consistent, regular basis. And in doing that my mind finally went, oh, so we can rest a little bit. And it started learning that there was another way to do it.” (16:40)

“Eventually it was, ‘I have to let this go.’ And it took time, it is not an easy, overnight process, but I had to get to the point of ‘I can’t keep holding onto this.’” (24:48)

Links

Reignite Your Purpose Website

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 082: The Betrayal of Abuse and Its Connection to Illness w/ Dr. Meg Haworth

082: The Betrayal of Abuse and Its Connection to Illness w/ Dr. Meg Haworth

Dr. Meg Haworth is a wellness expert, nutritional celebrity chef, transpersonal psychologist and best-selling author who is proof that it truly is possible to heal from anything. Having faced over a dozen chronic illnesses, survived childhood sexual abuse and getting struck by lightning, Dr. Meg focuses on holistic wellness solutions for those who have developed a chronic illness as a result of their adverse experiences. 

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Going through a betrayal impacts every part of us, including physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. When we are not able to heal and release this trauma it can build up inside of our cellular memory and cause illness, disease and unnecessary stress. It is only by treating our symptoms in a holistic way that we can begin to understand the mind-body connection, and Dr. Meg is here to shine a light on your environment’s ability to alter the core of your being. 

Chronic illness as a result of betrayal is something that many struggle with, but it doesn’t have to be that way. If you are ready to heal your mind, body, and soul as one whole entity, Dr. Meg is here to help you find your enlightening power of choice and get to the next level of your healing journey. 

Have your past experiences resulted in a physical, mental or emotional illness? Share how you are working to release the past and move forward holistically in the comments below. 

In This Episode

  • Learn how to release your past experiences from your cellular memory
  • Looking at the connection between the mind, body, and spirit to find holistic healing
  • Explore the major link between adverse childhood experiences and illness
  • How to shift your wellness journey through real food and trained professionals
  • Discover what it is like to be struck by lightning and how Dr. Meg continues to heal

Quotes 

“Most medical practitioners, they are always looking for what is wrong with you physically and how do we help that physically. But it was really the mental, emotional and spiritual issues that were beneath it all that were the biggest thing that unlocked the mystery of my own health.” (3:23)

“I knew I was spinning in anxiety all the time, I knew that I was a wreck on the inside and that the smiling outside didn’t match the inside, I knew all of that. But I didn’t understand how it was wearing away at my physical body.” (7:28)

“That question in that moment really changed the course of my life, because then I decided that I needed to take my healing into my own hands and look at some alternatives or complementary care that might be able to help me actually heal.” (12:14)

“You’re looking at the connection between the mind, the body and the spirit, and the mental emotional and spiritual are really at the core of the experience.” (20:18)

Links

Dr. Meg Hayworth Website

Get Well Now by Dr. Meg Hayworth

Get Well Soon Podcast

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 080: A Mind/Body Approach to How People Heal w/ Devorah Steinberg

080: A Mind/Body Approach to How People Heal w/ Devorah Steinberg

More often than not, trauma gets stuck inside our bodies, and we need to get it out in order to begin to heal and move on. Devorah Steinberg is an LICSW, therapist, love coach and spiritual seeker who has dedicated her life to helping others reach their goals in love, spirit, and their life purpose. After a deeply personal spiritual journey helped Devorah find clarity, and true love, she created the Wise Woman Path to Love. Now, she is dedicated to helping her clients through online and in-person coaching in order to heal patterns of self-betrayal through mind-body approaches.

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Devorah believes in the ability of mind-body practices such as yoga, hypnotherapy, and bottom-up processing in order to help yourself get unstuck. When you can forgive yourself for the ways in which you betray yourself, you can trust your intuition and avoid heartache.

It is all about the people, techniques, and healing that can help you move past your betrayal. Providing an arsenal of tools to reach out and try, Devorah is here to help you find what works for you and move from a place of darkness to freedom and light.

Have you tried any of the practices or techniques Devorah discusses on this episode? Let us know your experiences in the comments below!

In This Episode

  • Recognizing and acknowledging your unconscious self-betrayal
  • Specific mind-body practices to help unlock your inner potential
  • Helping other women on the path to true love through a spiritual journey
  • The crazy experience Debi had during a yoga class and the best types of yoga for beginners
  • Tapping, hypnotherapy, EMDR, and other effective therapeutic techniques

Quotes

“I started out with that deep draw to the mystical. And to what is going on at the core, at the seed, going deeper and deeper and deeper” (2:23)

“If you are focused on just giving and there is no giving and receiving to the depth of that level of balance, guess what’s going to happen? You’re not going to receive” (8:29)

“After 25 years of searching and literally feeling like I was banging my head against the wall, three months later everything changed” (10:50)

“No matter how long you have been feeling stuck, wherever you are there is a place to heal. You are not forever bound to be in this place” (26:27)

Links

The Wise Woman Path

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough Podcast 077: Moving From Wounds to Empowerment w/ Monica Bennett

077: Moving From Wounds to Empowerment w/ Monica Bennett

Transformation happens through consistent action, major perspective shifts, and a willingness to adventure into the unknown. Regardless of how much trauma and betrayal you’ve experienced in your life, if you’re willing to put the work in, you will see results. Our guest, Monica Bennett, shares today how she’s worked through her past to now help women overcome theirs.

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Monica’s parents were both Holocaust survivors and her childhood was full of fear and uncertainty. She grew up in an unhappy and disappointing environment and later learned that she was generationally passing these traumas onto her daughter. But over the years, she’s learned many coping mechanisms for working through and healing from her trauma.

The way we respond to betrayal can actually become a pattern in our lives; it’s something we get used to. Breaking that pattern helps us move forward. Monica finds that writing three pages of her thoughts every morning helps her make sense of her thoughts. She also shares how other aspects of her life impact how she responds to trauma, including the food she eats.

Monica explains that one of the hardest parts of healing from trauma, for her, was learning who she was outside of it. When you’ve sat in trauma for years, do you really know who you are? She gives us some examples of how she learned who she is. And while it’s not for everyone, Monica worked with a holistic shaman for a number of years to get to the root cause of her trauma. 

How have you committed to working through your trauma every day? Let us know what you gained most from Monica’s story in the comments below! 

In This Episode

  • How to move forward after betrayal
  • Why betrayal can impact multiple generations
  • How responding to betrayal can become a pattern
  • Why writing out morning pages every day can help you understand your betrayal
  • How your food habits can impact how your body responds to betrayal
  • How you can create your identity outside of trauma
  • What mirror work is and how it can help you move through trauma
  • What role a shaman can play in working through feelings of betrayal
  • Why you need to commit to working through betrayal every day
  • What can help you break through old limiting beliefs

Quotes

“Once you start looking and becoming aware of your past betrayal, you have understanding. Once you have understanding, then you have clarity. And once you have the clarity, then you can start to move forward.” (3:00)

“These words, these neuropathways, are so almost hardwired, that slowly we have to learn to disconnect like a wire to a plug in the wall. We have to learn to disconnect slowly.” (15:00)

“Unfortunately, you have to step out into the unknown if you do want to heal. And that’s where the tricky part comes because the unknown can be so uncomfortable, that you’ll come back to the known, even though that is so uncomfortable. But at least it’s familiar.” (18:18)

“I realize that not every day is a good day, but I know I have the insight to navigate the days with gratitude.” (25:39)

Links

The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

Positive Mind LLC Website

Monica Bennett on Facebook

Call Monica on 516-297-0672

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough Podcast 076: When Things Go Sideways w/ Sachin Patel

076: When Things Go Sideways w/ Sachin Patel

After a business partnership resulted in the loss of money, security and time with his family, Sachin Patel realized he needed to make a change. Thanks to his emotional imprinting, strong faith in karma and desire to learn from the experience, Sachin has since harnessed the pain of his betrayal into a stronger business and leadership role.

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A must-listen for any business owners struggling with resiliency after things didn’t work out the way they expected, Sachin is an inspiring example of how to come back from a betrayal stronger than ever.

Combining his desire to keep people out of the medical system by empowering them through self-care, and his ability to let things roll off his back thanks to emotional imprinting, Sachin is here to explain why following your hunches is usually a good thing. 

Has a business relationship or experience soured your ability to move on? Share what inspired you most about Sachin’s story in the comments below!

In This Episode

  • How a bad business situation ended up being the best thing that ever happened
  • The role emotional imprinting can play in your ability to let things go
  • Ways to reverse engineer your betrayal so that it doesn’t happen to someone else
  • Tips to become a better business owner and leader despite your hardships
  • Having faith in karma and the manifestation of your thoughts  

Quotes

“I had to keep a smile on my face the whole time, which was a tough thing to do.” (12:02)

“I was just kind of banking on the fact that ‘hey this could pay off in the long run, and if it does it’s going to pay off big’. And once I realized that it wasn’t, it was time for me to walk.” (13:34)

“When you lie to someone, that’s betraying them. When you lead someone on, that’s betraying them. Even if your intentions are good, if it is not the truth, its betrayal.” (17:59)

“I don’t feel super bad for myself because I learned so much, it was like a $60,000 education I got. And it was through that education that I realized, ‘hey, here is how I can run my business so that I never do this to somebody else’.” (24:14)

“We can use what we have learned to serve us, to make sure that we don’t do it to somebody else, and just create a much better future for ourselves instead of living in the past.” (27:59)

Links

Free 30-Day Program

The Living Proof Institute Website

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 074: Healing Negative Relationship Messages w/ Anna Osborn

074: Healing Negative Relationship Messages w/ Anna Osborn

After a betrayal, it takes a willingness from both parties and the ability to hold space for one another’s pain in order to move forward. Anna Osborn is an LMFT, founder of Life Unscripted Counselling and co-creator of Shine Retreat for Women. Anna works to help couples find safety and healing while navigating the tricky waters of rebuilding a relationship after betrayal.

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You owe it to yourself to bring your best and healthiest self into the next chapter of your life, with or without your relationship with another. It takes some hard work to find consistency between your words and your actions, but with some effort, you can find peace within the ‘what-ifs’ and actually do the work necessary to heal. 

Being able to triage the huge intense wound of a betrayal is possible when you are able to remember what it was like before and rebuild trust after grieving the loss of that chapter in your relationship. If you want to improve your communication, deepen intimacy, heal from betrayal or change your negative patterns of disconnection, Anna is the expert for you. 

Have you been betrayed and are considering rebuilding a life with the person that hurt you? Let us know what you gained most from Anna’s insight in the comments below. 

In This Episode

  • Signs to learn if your partner is truly being present in your healing journey 
  • How to gain the emotional understanding of what it means to really hear somebody 
  • Creating body awareness and the ability to give a voice to your physical sensations
  • Suggestions for both the betrayed partner and the betrayer to move on without shame
  • Learn ways that you can build or rebuild trust in your relationship and yourself

Quotes

“Although the choices that the betraying partner made are devastating and unfair and all those sorts of things, life is multi-layered.” (7:45)

“There’s a way that the relationship has been breaking down, that has lead to greater vulnerabilities, to where the betraying partner made this choice.” (10:59)

“I really believe that when it comes to this type of work its really about supporting and helping people on the path, to be able to lay something down, because it’s simply too heavy to be able to carry into the future and the relationship that they deserve.” (15:21)

“Part of the healing process is to create enough stillness around to know what you need healing to look like. And that is a day by day journey.” (27:36)

Links

Life Unscripted Counselling

Her Life Unscripted Podcast

Shine Retreat for Women

Contact Anna and Mari at info@ShineRetreatForWomen.com

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Women Hacking Betrayal Facebook Group

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough Podcast 073: Why Finding a Supportive Tribe Helps You Heal w/ Mari Lee

073: Why Finding a Supportive Tribe Helps You Heal w/ Mari Lee

A licensed marriage, family and sex addiction therapist, Mari Lee understands the differences between sex addiction and other forms of addiction such as drugs and alcohol. The founder of Growth Counselling Services and the Shine Women’s Retreat in Laguna Beach, CA, Mari is an expert on helping sex addicts, and their betrayed partners, find clarity and understanding. 

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This type of trauma can leave many physical, mental and emotional symptoms in its wake, and through the help of professional like Mari you can discover if healing is possible in your relationship. Mari is here to help you rebuild your self-esteem from feelings of rejection and abandonment and help you manage and heal from your betrayal trauma. 

Today we dive into the bio-psycho assessment process, sexual dependency inventories and formal disclosure processes so that you can be equipped with the necessary knowledge to take the first steps to recover. When dealing with a sex addict it takes wisdom and insight to figure out how to heal, and Mari is here to help you gain that knowledge. 

How has sex addiction impacted your relationship? Share with us in the comments below. 

In This Episode

  • Learn how sex addiction differs from alcohol or drug addiction 
  • A look into the assessment and treatment process for individuals and couples
  • The common denominator between betrayed partners of sexual addiction 
  • Understanding what self-care means to different people based on your history 
  • Exploring the role your faith plays in your relationship and values

Quotes

“When we talk about my specialization, which is working with sex addicts and their betrayed partners, we’re talking about a different level of trauma because a bottle of vodka, for example, doesn’t have a penis or breasts or a vagina.” (5:23)

“All of this information, these messages that we hear that have so much mistruth to them, we really do need to challenge them and show up for ourself.” (17:12)

“It is very likely that they can heal as long as both people are willing to do the work.” (21:59)

“This is truly a labor of love to help women get their feet back on the ground.” (31:43)

Links

The Counselor’s Coach

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From Betrayal To Breakthrough 072: How to Rewire Your Brain After Betrayal w/ Louise Swartswalter

072: How to Rewire Your Brain After Betrayal w/ Louise Swartswalter

Louise Swartswalter has had a 20-year career transforming lives using a unique multi-dimensional approach to helping others cleanse the body mind and spirit of all that is blocking you from achieving your goals. 

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After using multi-sensory development protocols to help children with dyslexia, Louise realized the same principles could be applied to healing ourselves as well. With this knowledge, Louise created the B.R.A.I.N System and has helped her clients move from anxiety to calm in as little as one session. 

Louise works with what is impacting you energetically, even if you do not currently realize its impact, so that you can clear yourself spiritually, mentally and physically. By clearing these blocks, you can release what is holding you back and rewire your brain for success. 

Join us as we explore the power of muscle testing, biofeedback, and the impact of the spoken word so that you can empower yourself to clear whatever is blocking your goals and intentions for good. 

Have known or unknown energetic blockers been keeping you back from living your full potential? Share your story in the comments below.

In This Episode

  • Learn what biofeedback is and the great impact it can have on your brain
  • Understanding how your thoughts and words are connected to your nervous system
  • Simple ways to muscle test so you can have a fail-proof BS meter at your disposal
  • How to use the B.R.A.I.N. System to empower yourself and clear your blocks
  • Releasing the brain-soul connection from your betrayal to find true healing

Quotes

“When I started releasing the blocks in the field and the brain-soul connections in the field is really when I became more of who I came here to be.” (3:36)

“I started putting them on biofeedback and I started to see their brains change in a different way than I could help them with reading, writing, and spelling. One little guy jumped 2 grades in reading just with biofeedback.” (16:54)

“It’s totally possible to completely change your life and change your energy.” (21:42)

“If you’re not feeling like yourself, or you feel like you are out of balance, keep seeking, find those answers for yourself whatever they are. Everybody has a gift to give. And if you are not using your gifts in the world you are not honoring God.” (32:01)

Links

Louise Swartswalter Website

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Albuquerque Natural Health Center

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