PBT Couples VIP Small Group Retreat

A 3-Day In Person Transformation

September 29th - October 1st, 2023

La Jolla, California

A Personal Note From Dr. Debi

Dear Amazing You,

You’re dedicated to healing from betrayal. You’re taking responsibility for your life and gaining momentum with regaining a sense of balance, trust and safety.  

But you may still be struggling with transforming and living as your thriving 2.0 self.

Even if you are healing mentally and emotionally, what about other aspects of life that may need attention like your health, wealth, work, lifestyle, dreams, and more?

Which is why I invite you to the PBT VIP Small Group Retreat - to give you the support you deserve to accelerate your healing and growth. The rest of your fabulous life is waiting for you… now is the time to create it, claim it, and live it. With my personal help, the support of our carefully hand-picked experts, and within a cocoon of safety and creativity, let’s become, create, and celebrate your transformed self.

If you’ve experienced what we can do together in 30 minutes during a private session or a group Q&A call, just imagine what can happen when we have 3 days to create your ultimate YOU! I’m including EVERYTHING I know that can help create your most transformative experience.

With love, support and transformation,

I can’t even find the words to properly describe how instrumental you have been in helping me change my life.


“I can’t even find the words to properly describe how instrumental you have been in helping me change my life. When I came to you I felt broken and defeated. I wanted to change my life, I just didn’t know how or where to start. With your help I created Debra 2.0, the new and improved version of myself that I always dreamed I could be. For those who feel lost, beaten down or in despair, they owe it to themselves to call you. I’m so glad I did!”

Over these 3 days, you will…

Immerse in Your 2.0 Self

By getting away from your usual environment, you'll remove all limitations so you can quickly and easily become your 2.0 self. 

Experience growth, change and healing

Experience growth, change and healing as you engage in specific activities and processes delivered through 1:1 time, collaborative group time, and support from dynamic guest experts.

Accelerate Your Transformation

Accelerate your transformation by spending 3 days with carefully selected, like-minded people ready to grow and transform. Growth is exponential through community so we’re curating the perfect small mix of people for you to experience this with.

Amplify Your Results

Amplify your results when you surround yourself with the right people, place and activities; all working together to create a world class experience.

See, become and create

See, become and create your 2.0 self.

Overview of the Retreat Experience

Your VIP experience begins before we meet in person so you can jumpstart your process.
Click each button below to see what awaits you each day!


1:1 Private Zoom with Dr. Debi: Complete Lifestyle Assessment (NES Health Scan)
(Valued $1200)

We use a simple, high-tech approach to detect and assess your internal and external environments. These include factors such as toxins, nutritional imbalances, core beliefs, emotions, stored trauma, brain performance, purpose and more. This is done to identify and correct the imbalances in your physical-emotional-mental field. This allows us to identify and treat the root causes, supporting the body's most fundamental control system. It will also help you gain clarity on what’s been holding you back and why, so you are free to dream into and create what’s next for you.



Gain clarity on what is and what’s not working in all areas of your life so together, we can start designing your customized health, relationship, work and lifestyle plan.

Your guide: Dr. Debi



Rewire your body, mind and heart to become the next version of yourself capable of creating all you dream and desire.

Your guides: Dr. Debi, Svetlana Dubinsky, Dr. Aimie Apigian, Jenn Malecha & PBT Coach Michelle

Svetlana’s Session: Epigenetically Reconditioning Your Body to a New Mind

Session Description:
When you understand there’s a formula to overcome the conditions of your life and your body with your mind, you will transform the undesirable conditions in your life. You will learn some of the elements essential to rewrite your genetic expression by signaling new genes, just by thought alone. This not only unlocks the inner pharmacy within you but the by-product is a more joyful, fulfilled life. You will remember that you are greater than you think, more unlimited than you know, and more powerful than you ever dreamed.

Dr. Aimie Apigian's Session: Stored Trauma in The Body and Its Effects

Session Description:
Dr. Aimie brings you The Biology of Trauma™: a new lens and a methodology that courageously both adds to and bridges trauma work and medicine by reverse-engineering the chronic effects of trauma on the nervous system and body on a cellular level.

Jenn Malecha's Session: Stepping Into Your Desired State with Gratitude & Ease

Session Description:
In this experiential exercise you will gain appreciate for all the roads that have led you here; how each one of them as been a solution and stepping stone to realizing Your 2.0 Self. By the end your desired state of being will be within your reach!

P.M.: Your 2.0 Self Special Evening Event and Experience where you will SEE meet, greet and live as a version of yourself that is ecstatically happy, healthy, healed, confident and secure.



Create a personalized roadmap and the exact next steps needed to turn your dream into a reality. (You’ll even be IN ACTION on some of these items throughout the day.)

Your guides: Dr. Debi & PBT Coach Michelle


Often after a transformative experience like this, it can be challenging to build momentum; especially when you hit bumps in the road as you integrate back into your environment. We got you covered with this post-retreat connection and accountability call.

Your guide: Dr. Debi


  • Personal lifestyle/health scan
  • 3-day retreat packed with transformational activities
  • Ocean-front property for hosting
  • Catered meals - smoothies, snacks, dinner on Friday, breakfast, lunch & dinner on Saturday, and brunch on Sunday before you leave!
  • A personal gift from Dr. Debi & Team PBT

Not included:

  • Accommodations
  • Travel


Early Bird Payment Plan:



x 3 payments

Payment Plan after 1/1/23:



x 3 payments

Early Bird Pay in Full:



Save $244!

Pay in Full after 1/1/23:



Save $349!

I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW.


"I don't know if I've ever been this happy before. I'm so grateful for PBT-so blessed. I KNOW I'll get there and that it's just a work in progress! I'm almost crying as I'm writing this to you right now. Thank you so much again for PBT!!! When you said nothing else like this exists, you were so right because I've been to 8 therapists in the last 2.5 years, tried EMDR, and nothing has worked until NOW. You're seriously such an angel!"

About Your Guides

Dr. Debi Silber

Dr. Debi Silber, PhD is the founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of Trust Again, and is a 2-time #1 International bestselling author of: The Unshakable Woman AND From Hardened to Healed. Her podcast: From Betrayal to Breakthrough is also globally ranked within the top 1.5% of podcasts. She’s also a Certified Personal Trainer, holistic Registered Dietitian with a Master’s in Nutrition earning specialty recognition in weight loss/weight maintenance, a Whole Health Coach, Functional Diagnostic Nutritionist, Certified in NES (BioEnergetics) Health, Emotion Code and Whole Person Integration Technique. Her PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she’s an award-winning speaker and coach dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most. Dr. Debi is the mom of 4 amazing entrepreneurial kids (Dani-27, Dylan-25, Camryn-22 and Cole-20), 2 incredible bonus daughters (the girlfriends of 2 of her kids), 4 dogs, and she married her husband Adam AGAIN after they both transformed due to their betrayal experience. She’s bringing together over 30 years of body, mind and lifestyle practices to create a life-changing experience.

Svetlana Dubinsky

Svetlana Dubinsky, Founder and President of Mindset Shifts Happen Here. Svetlana has spent 30 years in the healthcare industry where she is known for inspiring change and transformation throughout her organizations and the clients she has worked with. Her intrinsic passion for understanding and solving her client’s problems paved the way to significant advancement of a variety of strategic, organizational, regulatory and growth initiatives. Svetlana has worked for and with the most recognizable organizations at the highest, senior levels. Her partnerships have spanned many strategic focus areas. Svetlana’s passion and purpose is to help individuals and organizations; leaders and teams unlock their human potential. She holds an MBA, Healthcare, NeuroChangeSolutions Certified, HeartMath Resilience Advantage Trainer™ 

Michelle Nagel

Michelle Nagel is a TEDx speaker, an international bestselling author, creator of R.O.A.R to Win, a Master Herbalist, A HeartMathTM Certified Trainer, and a Certified VibroAcoustic Therapist. For over 20 years Michelle has mentored and guided people through Transformation after Trauma and Betrayal, and healing core wounds. Personally endorsed by Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul books, Michelle has provided a safe, sacred place for people to do their deep inner work, transform their lives, and come out on the other side stronger, wiser, and happier.  

Dr. Aimie Apigian

Dr. Aimie Apigian, MD MS MPH is the leading medical expert on how life experiences get stored in the body and restore the body to its best state of health through her signature model and methodology, The Biology of Trauma™. She is a double board-certified medical physician in Preventive Medicine and Addiction Medicine. She has a Masters in Biochemistry and a Masters in Public Health. In addition to her medical training, she is also a Functional Medicine physician and has training and certifications specifically in neuro-autoimmunity, nutrition, and genetics for addictions, mental health, and mood and behavioral disorders. She has several certifications in various trauma therapies including the Instinctual Trauma Response Model, Somatic Experiencing, and NeuroAffective Touch.

She brings you The Biology of Trauma™: a new lens and a methodology that courageously both adds to and bridges trauma work and medicine by reverse-engineering the chronic effects of trauma on the nervous system and body on a cellular level.

Jenn Malecha

 Jenn Malecha supports busy, health-mind professionals in taking back control of their health by giving them access to the right lab tests and resources so they can find the missing pieces of their health puzzle, actually fix what is wrong, and get back to feeling like themselves again.

Using over a decade of personal training experience, training in Functional Diagnostic Nutrition, and Transformational Coaching, she creates personalized health-rebuilding programs for clients that are realistic and sustainable for long-lasting results, and that empowers clients to be the boss of their own health.

If you’re ready to look at the “big picture” of your health (not just one disconnected piece at a time), to embrace healthy as a way of being, and to stop settling for anything less than you deserve when it comes to your health and happiness then Jenn is exactly who you've been looking for!


Where is the retreat taking place?

Sunny La Jolla in San Diego, California. Upon registration, you’ll receive the address for this beautiful and cozy space right on the coast of the Pacific Ocean.

What COVID precautions are being considered?

We’ll be following the local public health guidelines. Of course, if you’re feeling sick, please take precautions and stay home.

What do I need to bring with me?

Pack a journal, any snacks you like (while we’re feeding you, you may want your own snacks available), and we’ll send out an email about something special to pack (we have a surprise in store and don’t want to give it away!)

Where will I stay?

Accommodations are not included. However, there are many beautiful hotels within walking distance of the retreat location. We've made a list of them for your convenience below:

Are food sensitivities accommodated?

Absolutely! Please inform us of any food allergies or sensitivities. We’ll have smoothies, snacks, dinner on Friday, breakfast, lunch & dinner on Saturday, and brunch on Sunday before you leave!

What airport do I fly into?

San Diego (SAN) Airport is the closest airport.

What do I wear?

Comfortable clothes and layers in case you get cold/warm.

What can I expect from the retreat?

Bring an open mind and a willingness to play full out - remember, it takes new thoughts, behaviors, actions and insights to create something new and that’s what we’ll be doing together. Don’t worry, it won’t be too far out of your comfort zone-just enough to create results!

What's the schedule?

We’ll be doing your personalized scan and going over your results before the event so you can have a jumpstart. The sooner you register, the sooner we begin! We’ll start in the late afternoon on Friday until sundown, Saturday 8am-9pm (we have our special Saturday night activity but you’ll have plenty of breaks throughout the day), Sunday 8am-1pm, and the post retreat call will be scheduled in March to keep your momentum going!

What's the refund policy?

If you need to cancel your trip we’re happy to oblige but you must do so before 1/24/23. Refunds will be issued less a $500 non-refundable deposit for processing fees. We apologize for any inconvenience!

Can I bring a friend?

You bet! Refer a friend and get $500 off your own ticket!

Who do I reach out to with additional questions?

Please reach out to Debi at Debi@DebiSilber.com for any additional questions you may have!

You’ve waited long enough. You may even be feeling like you’ve wasted 20, 30 or more years not living, feeling, looking or performing your best. Anything is possible with the right tools, resources and support and we’re bringing it ALL together for you. We’re creating a roadmap for you to get there quickly. No more settling. It’s time to create a version of you that you’re going to love. Join us.

Can’t wait to support your transformation!

- Dr. Debi and Team PBT